What would you do? Your boyfriend is in love with your sister!

Philippines
May 2, 2009 11:37pm CST
We have been steady for two years... We have this long distance relationship because he is working as a seaman. I have waited for him and very excited that he will be going home soon. I did not know that the day that I have been waiting for is also the day that will make my heart break. He would have lots of reasons... But later did I know that the main reason because he is falling in love with my own sister. The scene: I am texting him claiming that I am my sister. My sister suggested to use another number and use her name so that he would reply to my texts and would really know what he is really up to. While we are having lots of conversations, he immediately told me that the reason of falling out of love because everytime he sees my sister, the love grows not for me but for her.... I hope anyone can reply into this and could give and share my some advice. Thank you!
2 responses
@bird123 (10526)
• United States
9 May 09
I think you already know the answer. If he is looking at your sister, what does that say about him?? Do you want true love or just someone to play with??? I could never go for the sister of my girlfriend or the girlfriends of my brothers. A person has to draw lines. Wild and free is just playing around.
• Philippines
11 May 09
Yes.. He is just playing around. He doesn't even care if how much will I feel... I am just shocked at first because I thought he is different, he is sincere and everything. Wrong thinking again. Maybe I am kinda thankful that this thing happened, because I am beginning to see my life spending the rest of it with him. But now that I knew who he really is, I am now moving on and realized that he is not all worth it. Thank you for responding on this topic.:)
@cicisnana (775)
• United States
3 May 09
Well, I'm sorry honey, but it seems you really messed up. First of all you say you love this man but have been deceiving him into thinking you were your sister, when all along you were actually just checking up on him. That's not good. If I'm wrong I am sorry for saying that to you.
• Philippines
11 May 09
I did messed up..But through that, I knew that he was in love with my sister..Long time ago that before I figured it out. He was showing those attitudes towards her, but now,it really confirmed that he was really in love. Ouch.