You are very fat or you are very slim!

@med889 (5941)
May 4, 2009 2:04am CST
If people comment on your figure or your weight how do you feel?
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7 responses
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
5 May 09
I think i am a very fat girl...i am 158 cm and 70kg.
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@reploid (1371)
• France
5 May 09
I think I'm too slim, but as med889 said, we have to stick to our personality.
@med889 (5941)
5 May 09
Errhhh I will say yes and I will also say that if you feel comfortable with yourself then you don't need to change yourself for anyone else as you are you and you are special the way you are so always stick to your personality.
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• United States
5 May 09
I actually feel great when people do. I normally don't get comments from strangers on my body. Just family. I tend to have more stangers saying something about my hair and face than anything else. But thats cool i'm working on my body ;)
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@med889 (5941)
5 May 09
Hello there, nice to know that indeed it is good to receive comments so that you can improve on your looks or just to know that someone is caring for your looks is hardly enough.Happy mylotting:-)
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@reploid (1371)
• France
5 May 09
Yes, you are both right.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
5 May 09
I spent most of my life as an overweight person. Until three years ago, when I had gastric bypass I had lived as a person that hated being overweight. I remember people asking me when the baby was due or if I was pregnant. I would be so humiliated that all I wanted to do was humiliate them so I would respond, "No, I'm just fat!" Many times they would get the point and say nothing more. When they walked away they didn't know the impact they had made on me. I couldn't believe that people who had never met me would even ask such a question to begin with. If I don't know someone I won't ask about pregnancy unless they bring it up. Anyway, now that I have lost enough weight to make another person people who knew me before comment all the time and it makes me feel great.
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• United States
5 May 09
Wow, I heard "gastric bypass" was very dangrous. :) But aslong as your happpy. AWESOME!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
5 May 09
I am medium. I was very slim few years back. I suddenly have gained some weight.
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@reploid (1371)
• France
5 May 09
I'm slim, you say you suddenly gained some weight is there a reason behind that? I'm trying to find a natural way to gain weight.
@Elixiress (3878)
5 May 09
I am very slim, I am a size 4/6/8 in UK sizes. It all depends on what people comment on, I am short at 5 foot, so I get rather annoyed when people point out I am small. Hmm yes I did notice thanks. People tend to be quite positive about my figure, but I hate it when I am on a diet, because I have pigged out and gained a stone, which means my clothes don't fit comfortably. They all say "but you don't need it, you shouldn't diet" last time I checked it was my body and I can loose or gain weight if I like.
@med889 (5941)
6 May 09
Hello there! Well thanks for sharing.As far as you feel comfortable with yourself then you don't need to listen to others.
@reploid (1371)
• France
5 May 09
I never cared about my weight coz I'm always feeling healthy, Now my girlfriend tells me I'm too slim. I am trying to get some weight. Not only because of my girlfriend who does not like to feel my bones ;-0, but because since she told me that, I'm feeling kind of too slim.
@med889 (5941)
6 May 09
If she says so then I am sure you are too slim. Its good to feel flesh instead of bones:-)
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@kedves (728)
5 May 09
I have a pot belly but to be honest I don't care. I am who I am and I am happy with myself. So if people want to comment I just laugh and ask them if they got nothing better to do than look at me :)
@med889 (5941)
6 May 09
Yes you are right you got to stick to your personality instead of letting people judging you. I am like this and I love the way I am.