Why do people cheat?

United States
May 4, 2009 4:04pm CST
I got a question how come do people cheat? If you love that person why cheat on them and try to go back to them and some people wonder why they cant find love because most of them cheat.
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
7 May 09
It is one of the questions that remain a mystery to me. I have been cheated before twice. It is not only one person who did cheat on me but two of my previous relationship. For me, if you feel like you don't love me anymore, all you have to do is tell me the truth and I will set you free if things will not work out. In the first place I always remind my partner to tell the truth no matter how painful it is. You don't have to commit a sin by cheating if you ended the relationship first before going to another else. I believe that not all are eternal. Some have endings. But there are still who cheat. I am really wondering why.
• United States
7 May 09
yeah i agree with you and i simply dont get it but i know i will never do it i think it stupid
• United Arab Emirates
5 May 09
Generally, IT'S BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH. They're never satisfied with what they already have. The painful thing is on the part of those (stupid girls...like me) who decides to forgive and accept them again and again despite what they did. IT'S SO UNFAIR, for the reason that we love them, we don't want to see reality (pathetic). They continue cheating because after their mistake, we are allowing them to be part of our life again, i guess. Despite their lies and betrayals, after they ask forgiveness, they expect us to accept and love them again and we are forgiving and accepting...whoooa...I WANT TO WAKE UP.
• United States
7 May 09
Yeah I know how that is but People are just doing stupid things really and in this case love blinds people many people go through this and its ok as long as you learn from it.
@dodo19 (34284)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
4 May 09
I have no idea why people cheat. It's something that I really don't understand. It's a concept or something that I've never really understood. I'm really on the same page as you. I agree completely with what you say.
• United States
7 May 09
I agree I would never cheat on the woman i am going out with i dont see the point you might as well break up if you going to cheat
• Italy
5 May 09
love is different from ***!
@chastity7 (104)
• United States
5 May 09
Sometimes people cheat because they think with their hearts instead of their heads. Because it seems like the right thing at the time. Sometimes they are looking to fulfill a need that's not being met, sometimes they just cheat because they are jerks. I'm not saying it's right, but I think that's why. Who knows??