Do you use toilet when you are in a other house in visit? I don t!

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
May 5, 2009 2:20am CST
Can be a weird question , but is a perfect normal question. I can t use toilet in a strange house, of course, only if is very urgent. Maybe i have a problem, but i really don t like to ask...Please where toilet is? I have a friend who can ask to take a shower in my house if she don t have hot water...no problem for she.. I can t, i need feel in safe in my house intimacy, are things who i can make only in my house and to office(if i want to go to toilet of course, not to take a shower there). Do you like to use bath or toilet in others house?
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
5 May 09
i am also not comfortable using other people's comfort rooms or toilets, i am at ease only wiht my own at home..it is weird but thats the way i am hahahaha
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
5 May 09
you got my point..i try don t use..only if is very urgent of course
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@Shant23 (195)
5 May 09
If i need to go i will ask where i am does not bother me although if i need to have a poo i try not to do it in other peoples houses as that is not very nice for them but i am not shy about the situation.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
5 May 09
but you don t like very much right? can be embarasing, in special if you are visiting who have a small apartment.
@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
5 May 09
Yes nothing beats the toilets and showers in our homes, but we can't bring them with us all the time, can we? I have no problem using other people's toilets and showers as long as I need it. As much as possible though, I'll try not to use them if I'm just visiting. But should the need arises, then I don't find it uncomfortable at all. Of course, I'm sure it'll be uncomfortable for them if they didn't really clean the place up, but most of the time, I haven't found a toilet or a shower that was inhumanely filthy. I think we should learn to be adaptable in life. Else, we'll be trapped in our homes because we don't feel we could adjust to other environments.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
5 May 09
of course that i will not go to home just becAuse i want to go to toilet, but i try to avoid, as much is possible, i don t feel comfortable to use others toilets.
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@a_manick (880)
• India
25 Jun 09
same problem for me also.so when i go out to my friends place,cinemas etc i dont even drink water or take snacks.I know this is as a very bad habit .but not able to change me .I feel comfortable only in my house.
@vicky30 (4779)
• India
25 Jun 09
I never use the toilet in another's persons house.If we have gone there from a long trip then i will ask for the toilet and go.Mostly if toilet comes for me on the way i will try to control it and then come home and go to the toilet.If a person comes to my house and asks for toilet i will never refuse it.It is only for visitors and not strangers.
@anangf (1148)
• Indonesia
17 May 09
Its something about our habit. Me myself never been using another toilet when i am not at home. But there is a time, i can not holding it. so it use the toilet and after that i run out back home, to cleaned again after.
@geniustiger (1699)
• Philippines
17 May 09
If there is a need in my body to urinate or dispose I will whats important to me is I can remove. Health is very important to me thats why I use any toilet If need to be there. But if bath maybe not if its only one day . If its long time I will take a bath I am afraid to have a bad odor.
@jheLaichie (4439)
• Philippines
17 May 09
if i really needed to go, i would really find a way to ease it. even if i may be at another peoples house. even i dont like using other peoples toilet, i just cant explain it but thats what i usually feel. i wont feel at ease using some strangers or even my friends comfort rooms or toilets. but if its a call of nature that i really need to go or if i badly needed a shower then no other choice but to use it anyway!
• Philippines
15 May 09
actually i don't. i think it is unethical to take a bath to someone's house, even if he/she is your friend. we have our own house the why should others have to bath in other house.
@flagella08 (5069)
• Philippines
12 May 09
toilet paper  - my savior
yes it's really hard when we're not in our own homes. our personal stuff will be sacrificed. i seem to be used to using toilets in other places. in fact, when nature calls me to do something, i don't mind if I'm in other's comfort zone. as long as the environment is hygienic enough and has toilet papers, it would be fine for me then.
@reinydawn (11651)
• United States
9 May 09
I'm ok in peoples houses, but not in public. I wont go to a public restroom unless I absolutely have to.
@jdyrj777 (6558)
• United States
7 May 09
I wouldnt use the shower unless i was spending the nite somewhere. The toilet is another thing. When ya gotta go, ya gotta go. I have medical conditions that require me to use a toilet ASAP. Holding either urine or bowel is not even healthy. I advise you to get over it and go. Before you make yourself ill.
@Greenhill (179)
• United States
6 May 09
I have a few friends whose homes are total pig pens. I can't even sit on their furniture yet use their toilet. I do not sit on any public toilets. I won't even go in a public rest room if it appears dirty from the outside.
@mentalward (14716)
• United States
6 May 09
You sound just like my husband. He doesn't even like to use the bathroom where he works! He has some kind of phobia about toilets other than his own. Me? I have no problem, unless they're really dirty. Sometimes public bathrooms can be filthy. But, when you've got to go, you've got to go! I just make sure not to touch anything with my bare fingers except for the toilet paper to line the seat with, then to flush the toilet with.
@sacmom (14338)
• United States
6 May 09
I personally don't like to, but I guess it depends on how far I go and how long I stay for. I'm not comfortable using other peoples bathrooms. I'd rather do my "doodie" in the comfort of my own home. LOL So I avoid it the best that I can and use the bathroom before I leave my house.
• Philippines
6 May 09
It's also weird for me not to be able to poo in another person's house. I can pee but never can pee when I'm not in my house. I don't understand why.
• United States
6 May 09
It depends on who's house it is. I don't go in public places unless I am absolutely forced to do so by mother nature because of the unsanitary conditions that most public bathroom have. If I am at someones house and they are a clean person who keeps their house well, I use the bathroom but if they are dirty slobs, nope, won't do it.
@kodigo (171)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Haha. Me If I badly need it, then why not? I don't want to pee on my pants or spread toxic air inside their house. Wahaha. And there are cases that if you prevent stop it by yourself you might get some urinary track infection or diseases. Its not good for our body to store too much of our waste inside so if I where you when nature calls. You know what to do.
@babyorchid (1739)
• China
6 May 09
me too. i dont know, i feel so strange and so wire by using other toilet in some other house.. so most cases, i will not drink too much when i go outside.. lol
• China
6 May 09
If the situation is very anxious,i donot mind whether their use of toilet or bathroom. Of course,you can find public toilets!