What is the best way to work out a long distance relationship?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
May 5, 2009 8:05am CST
For me it is still communication so that their won't be feeling doubts and temptation, and making your partner feel important though your miles away. Have a nice day to all of you!
3 responses
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
6 May 09
i guess you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries 
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
7 May 09
Hi kevsgirlalways, well we started like that, it's a matter of giving each other 100% of trust with each other. We try to make a way to communicate, just to make her feel I am near to her always. Lot's of efforts that your showing her how much you love her. Have a nice day to you!
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
5 May 09
You're right.. working out a long distance relationship requires constant communication..constant communication takes away the feeling of doubts and lures and yes, making your partner feel very important, loved and cared about.. long distance relationship may work out for other people but for me? a big no, no.. i couldn't afford not to see my hubby everyday.. i am used to being with him everyday..
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
7 May 09
Hi my friend gracie04, well the truth is this is how we started. It was kind a hard, but love happens and really made her special by means of communication, calling her up everyday, that I made it a point to see how was she. But now I am near her, and do trust each other more. Anyway have nice day to you!
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
5 May 09
This seems to be a really popular topic and I think learning how to make a long distance relationship work depends on both parties. Everyone is different and what they need in a relationship differs. What I would need from my partner could be different from what you would want. For me communication is important, but sometimes simply talking to each other and understanding isn't enough. You have to do what it takes to avoid temptation.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
7 May 09
Hi Jezebella, I think we all have our own way to work out the relationship. No matter how near or far. What counts you make her feel important by trying to be close to her. It's like your near but your far away. By just hearing her voice and hearing my voice can really help us not doubting each other, still we could know each other better. When you love someone you avoid temptation just to be real with your feelings and honest about it. Have a nice day to you!
