Have you ever had a friend betray you?

I did and this friend truly betrayed me big time. I know that backstabbing and all that is pretty normal as many said, but this was not only that but worst. I was being labeled with lots of not so nice things that you wouldn't believe your ears when the other party told you that. And the party that told me in turn was in cahoot with this friend of mine which said so many nasty things about me. Luckily we live in a civilize world or else, I would already punch a face to that person's face. But violence is not the way on doing things and I am just being patient because I know that bad things happen to those who do bad. Perhaps someday that person would be so hurt and remember how that person has hurt me before. I think you are better off without this kind of friend or friends that only know how to roll eyes and laugh. They should be clowns in circus for that.

Several times, I get betrayed...the people who I used to consider "Friends" are just betraying my trust, in an apalling way. It sucks massively. XD

hi, i live in such a wonderful country that here people don't really betray others. rather they betray themselves while in the process of betraying others...don't believe me! but yes that's true.we all live in a society so everyone is dependant on each other.so when someone betrays you that means he's betraying himself too. when you lose a friend for some silly greeds then you won't get him back.so in the long run you are going to be the loser not him...

I feel sorry for you. As my experience it happens a lot in office. I had similar experience too.My lesson is not try to make too close friend in office. It's not good for your job. It also does not help you to develop relatioship with your boss and other staff who you work with. Also you should learn how to protect yourself too. Better not make you to public in office. Keep your private things apart from your work. I had many lessons from my work. I tried to avoid some, but bacause of my nature, i still make similar mistakes. Best regards.

ya smtimes ppl just dont turn out whome u expect them to be its pretty annoying but u just gotta go on with life and expect facts ..........it does hurt wen ur frnds betray u it has happened to me twice in life and i was shattered both times so wat learnt frm it was not to trust ppl easily and also not to expect anyting of them so if u dont expect anything there will be no reason fr dissapointment........its strange how someone who is such a gud frnd of urs could do such a thing to u it makes u dubt the very essence of the realtionship of frndship but in the end u gotta live with it ............

sence i was young i always incounter a bad friend that always betray me i dont know why so now im natured enougn to know what cant of friend i want to have i diside nand chose a friend to be with me coz its really hard to to find some one who cant trust and who cant defend on.

The friend is my sister.she is older than me .when i was a student,i will share everything with her.i told her how about my study,how about my loving and so on.once time,i love a boy and want to open a eatery with him.but i have no enough money.so i ask her for help.she didn't lent and tell all the things to others.and i was forced to be disceperation with that boy.that time i hate her and fell her betray me.i didn't speak with her for several years.now i have my happy family with a cute baby. everything will be dilute by the time.i don't angry with her again.but we can't be back as before.

yes,i do have the experience that a friend betray me. how pathetic! i was there to help,but she misunderstood me and betrayed me! things began like this... when we two were still remained good friends. a guy suddenly involved in our life and then life changed. the guy had a bad reputation that almost everyone nearby knew clearly the kind of person he was. one day the guy turned to express his love feelings to me. at that time,i certainly refused to date with this guy because he was not the exactlly one suited for me and only he wanted was desire. how ridiculous! after my refuseness,this guy should turn to express his love feelings to my dear friend. gone damn! i told my friend this guy was far beyond trustful because he just wanted dating with girls and it seemed careless to him who the girls are. i told my friend that this guy had said he loved me the last minute before he turned to her. all i had thought that my friend would be inclined to agree with me. it scared me! i heard from some other girls that my friend was dating with that guy and every body was gossiped. i didn't know how and why,but the thing is,she never talk to me again. is that my fault? eventually,she broke up with that guy and asked me for forgiveness. i don't know how to choose,how could you trust your friend again after she had betrayed you...

yes this has happened to me, i am still angry up to now, and it has been a year since i didnt talk to that person, i still dont want to talk. i have cut all ties/connection that i have with that person.

Yes, i was also a victim of a friend betrayal. I guess even you are the most kindest person in this world. there will still be people who are going to be like this. Deceiving and taking advantage of the losses of others. I have been a good friend and still thingking what made someone else do the betrayal for me. I dont want to be specific about what happened because the pain is still there although im starting to forget what had happened. The lesson that I had learned from this is that, you should not trust someonelse that fast because you will never know who will betray you or not. The most important thing is your not doing what others dont want to do with you which is the "Golden Rule". I have learned that i dont have to point by my finger because the remaining fingers are pointed back at me. Well, I have to move on and be happy with the people that i will meet soon.. :-)