Why always all the bad things happen to me?

@subha12 (18462)
India
May 6, 2009 3:12am CST
Today morning I saw a mail that my project manager wants to meet me. Today he met me. He told me he will release me from project from 13th May. But it is a shocker for me. It is official rule to let us know by atleast 2 weeks Gap. Now I am facing real problem in finding a project in this short period. It is not good sign to be on bench in this market. I am helpless. I do not know why always bad luck struck me and I am the victim always.
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
6 May 09
am so sorry to hear this news but dont feel dejected.having a positive frame of mind will work wonders!!thinking negatively will only worsen the situation.good luck for the future!!
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
8 May 09
yaa. but its hard to keep positive mind when always bad things happen
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@4mymak (1796)
• Malaysia
6 May 09
Hi Subha, I am really sorry about what happened to you. But i really hope you would report the matter / abuse to the Human Resource / Personnel Dept in your company, especially since you mentioned that your manager has actually committed a 'misconduct' in his 'late-notice' to you... you really should report the matter or get some clarification from the concerned department.. please do not let that 'Bully Boss' get his way all the time - FIGHT BACK !!! .. he probably thinks that you dare not report his 'wrongdoings' - and maybe that's why he simply goes about his selfish ways... Prove Him Wrong!.. go and fight for your rights !!
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
8 May 09
I have reported, but nothing happened to that person.actually here after a certain post, like my manager, they do anything they want to do. They do not look at you. now Ia m finding it hard to find any project.
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@dianmelydia (2272)
• Indonesia
6 May 09
I think it's just a matter of mindset. You always thinking everything happened to you is bad. That's why you can't feel the good things. I suggest you to start your day with positive thinking and change your mindset about a thing. Saying to yourself that you can you are a lucky one should be a good start. Good luck for you and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
8 May 09
I think these are ideal ways. But when there are so many bad things happening can I be very positive?
• Philippines
6 May 09
these are just tests given to us. it will not be given to us if we can not do it. just try your best in what you do. sometimes we get very unlucky. but once we get unlucky, theres somethings waiting for us that will benefir us when we get through our unluckiness.
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
8 May 09
It may be very ideal case. I am not sure whether I will be able to do it or not.
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@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
7 May 09
I wander the same thing for myself alot of times too. I am sorry that you are having to go through this too. I hope everything works out for you.
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@kalav56 (11503)
• India
6 May 09
You are employed after all and not doing freelancing isn't it?THen take this sitting on the bench as a well deserved holiday and take life easy.THe next project would soon be finalised and you would be working on it .
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@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Perhaps you're just being kept on your toes. If you could achieve what you need to do in a short period of time, that means you can do anything. Don't be afraid to face the challenge. Stay calm and stop worrying about it, worrying would only make you waste more time. Focus and stop thinking about the negative things for now. Good luck!
@subha12 (18462)
• India
8 May 09
It may be that worrying will make it worse bad the thoughts are coming.
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@KrauseHome (33259)
• United States
25 Jul 09
Sorry that this has happened to you, and Sorry for just now responding. I know here it is the end of July, and I hope by now you have been able to find some sort of work, and things have gotten better for you. I know in the real world these days it is hard to know what is really going on, and when things will ever get any better. All you can do is find more Creative ways to try and sell yourself and offer to others who you really are, and what you can do for them. Wishing you the Best.
@ptrikha_2 (5698)
• India
18 Jul 09
I too am on bench and things are not going good in my company . Also , now my company has started firing people. The HR just calls the person for a meeting , then tells them that it is their last day and it is "over" . So convenient for the HR . Alas so tough for the employees. They do get 2 months salary - that too basic . However that is too little to console one .