What would you prefer a break up or a cool off?

@n30wing (4771)
Philippines
May 7, 2009 5:08am CST
Well I don't like a cool off, I just don't want to expect, and I don't want to be hung up with question I can't answer alone in the dark. And the agony of waiting of time and space to think. I rather go straight to the point, and no holding on, it will be easier for both of us to go on with our paths. So what would you prefer a cool off or a break up guys? Just want to know your stand with this and your reasons. Have a nice day to all of you!
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4 responses
• Philippines
7 May 09
I don't like a cool off too because I don't want anything indefinite and unclear. For me it is either just yes or no, make or break, stop or go. I don't like things in between. A cooling off is a sign that someone has become unsure of his feelings for the other. A cooling off is a sign that someone in the relationship has lost his/her passion and if this is the case, I don't see any point in going on with the relationship. It would be better for the partners to go their separate ways than to leave a partner hanging on to a relationship that has become one-sided. So don't cool off, keep the fire burning, keep your passions high in your relationship. Lukewarm is good only for bath water. Hahaha...
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
11 May 09
You said it right, that is how I feel also, it's what for being hung, when the feelings are not there anymore. Maybe we both just deserve to be happy in separate lives. Then having waiting for the verdict. The pain is already there, even you love the person. It's just wasted time. Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
15 May 09
Thanks, friend for the best response mark!
@Maryam27 (412)
• Pakistan
8 May 09
I hat eboth of them but i guess if the situation gets that bad i would be left with the cool off option as i can't imagine life without him. For me it's hard to leave him that's why. Other than that cool off is a bad bad option.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Hi Maryam27, well I don't go for cool off, because I just hate waiting for nothing. It's wasted time, and maybe we are not really meant for each other. Have a nice day to you!
@mapuang (615)
• Philippines
7 May 09
maybe its depend upon the situation. if the couple need some space they need cool off so that they will think what is the problem then after a time that they think they are okay then they will talk about it and if they really cant fix it so they should break up. and if problems are really bad they should break up and separate their ways.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Hi mapuang, well I hate the feeling on hung, and waiting for the verdict, like we can't fix anymore the relationship. Especially if were not both happy anymore with each other, I rather just break up. Yes it hurts for a while, then rather be hung then it's useless. Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
7 May 09
It depends on what situation you are in. Cool off and break up are not the same, It is used for a definite reason you can't just switch them.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Hi iceblade007, yes it depends on the situation, if we could still fix it, but what if it's not I rather just brake up, then keep myself on hung. I hate that feeling! Time and space sometimes hurts, cause she might be finding someone else. Have a nice day to you!