finding love in a small town

United States
May 7, 2009 11:20am CST
How many of you find that its hard to find love in a small town that you just moved to? I have lived in this town now for 2 years and still cant find one decent person here to date. Im not saying there arent decent men here, but most are already taken. The ones who are single arent looking for a serious relationship, or just dont seem to be real. As far as dating sites go, i have tried them so many times and i find a few that seem promising and then we just stop chatting, or they are so far away from me and expect me to come to them. In which i feel the man should come to you. any thoughts, besides giving up?
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9 responses
@chillpill90 (1937)
8 May 09
well first of dont give up im sure there is someone out there just dont worry about it someone will come along when you leasr expect it. online dating sites arent the way to go because you cant be certain that the person your talking to is being themselvess or just telling you what they think you want to hear. be careful.
@taski24 (214)
• Philippines
8 May 09
Maybe you could lower your standards a little? Or amend your definition of decent? If you're stuck in that town, and you really want to find love there, you have to make do with the available choices out there. Otherwise, if you feel that your special someone is somewhere else, then, flee from that town as soon as you can. Good luck in finding the love of your life.
@whmia520 (11)
• China
8 May 09
hehe, I come across the same thing with you. the man always expect me to come to him I also think the man should come to me, so we insist. But sometimes I think that maybe we feel lonely then we have some common words transitorily,so neither of us will come to each other.
@Jixapose (97)
• United States
8 May 09
Strange that you say that. Most of the relationships of my friends and family that endured the years and decades are ones that started in small towns. I've been considering for awhile now to leave this city and move to a small town to find love.
@malou17 (270)
• Philippines
8 May 09
For me u should not be hurry in finding a man... well there are many fishes in the sea as it says. It is just that you should not find a man because he is the one who will find you. The more you hurry urself in findign a man the more u cannot find some..
@soulist (2987)
• United States
7 May 09
I live in a very small town: my graduating class in high school was 68. I have lived here all my life and I finally found my love. He is from around here, but we just never met cause we "ran in different" circles until I changed churches and I met him there.
@shibham (17025)
• India
7 May 09
hai there. u can't find your love by this way. love does not depend in small or big town, it depends on heart. find out someone who can undestand your feelings, don't search him/her by his livings criteria. otherwise, u will definitly fail. take care.
• United States
7 May 09
I live in a town of 344 people and was completely shocked when 6 months after I moved here I found love. Don't give up. Just go about your daily activities and you will find someone, I know it.
@ajzone (201)
• India
7 May 09
nowadays luv is just a game for tennages like s,,boyz like our ages always eek gals to have s**,,no true luv nothg,, and m furious about it