Are you a person who is good at making decisons?

making decisions - how to make a decison without regret
China
May 7, 2009 6:36pm CST
I thin I am not a person that is good at making decisions. Usually, there are two chouice in front of me and I don't know which one I want to pick up. I often ask help for my friends. They are kindly and tell me their opinions. Some friends support one choice and the other suggest the other choice. They all said the deciding right depends on me, what I want, and who I want to be. However, I don't think that I know clearly what I want and who I want to be. So, I am lost, worried and afraid. Hi, firnds, do you know what you want and who you want to be? And if you were a peroson who does well in making decisions, can you give me some help? Thanks.^-^
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
7 May 09
yes i think I am pretty good at making the right choices, simply because I am a believer of the inner voice. I believe the inner voice is far more than we tend to think it is, I believe if you follow what your inner voice says you can't go wrong...I personally think that voice is our own spiritualcarer looking after us...
• China
8 May 09
Inner voice? How can I hear of the inner voice? I do not think I know what I want to have and want to do now.
@111flylcx (267)
• China
8 May 09
Just the other way,I am good at making decisions.Now when my mother counts some troubles ,she will ask my advices.She believes me .And many of my friends also do that.But It is difficule to make decision for others.I can only give some suggestions.You can try to express your opinion about the troubles.No matter it is right or not.
@MinruWind (194)
• United States
8 May 09
I'm not very good at making decisions most of the time. ; ) I think I rely on my friends too much for advice. : D I usually (if no one can help me) weigh the pros and cons (the good and bad things) about the effect (or the decision itself). After a little time, I usually make up my mind, although it can change rather quickly if I think of other things that support the other choice. I always try to stick with my original decision though, since I know I'll regret it if I change my mind later.
@Jennlk84 (4219)
• United States
7 May 09
I have a hard time making decisions on my own. I think I fear that without someone elses suggestions that I'll make the wrong decision or mess up. I almost always ask other people what they think before I make any decisions. If it's a petty decision then I can usually make it on my own, but otherwise, I need help!
• United States
7 May 09
depends sometimes i cant make a decision if it depended on my life lol