Blind Date????

@Polly1 (12645)
United States
May 7, 2009 7:53pm CST
As most of my friends here know I am a widow. its been a long time since I have been on a date. Guess What???? I had a blind date last night. We went to a nice family restaurant and had dinner, had a nice time. I don't see any big romance or any sparks flying. I am hoping that I might have a new friend, we can have dinner and go other places. I went out to lunch with a girlfriend, her daughters and their friends yesturday. The daughters decided to fix me up with their friends dad. They called him, gave him my number. He called and wanted to go out to dinner. This part was funny. I am tall, I was told that he was shorter then I am. He wasn't told about my height. To say the least, he was surprised. I asked him if he was told I was tall, he said no, he wasn't told anything. I am no beauty queen but I am far from being hideous. I am close to 6 ft. and he is 5'4". I guess I didn't scare him too much, he wants me to go with him someplace on Saturday. To turn this into a discussion, have you ever had a blind date? Did it work out?
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
8 May 09
Polly, I am glad you had fun! I hope if nothing else you have made a good friend. I am in way over my head with the one I have but he is good to me. I have had a couple of blind dates before but they didnt really workout.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Thanks it was fun, and hopefully we can become friends and have more fun. He is a gentleman, his daughter called him and asked what happened, he told her that his personal business was his business.
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
8 May 09
This is so funny. No I have never went on a blind date and after what is happening to me and my "SO CALLED" better half there will Never again be another date with anyone!!! My daughter was and still is very close friends with one of the girls at the bank and she has always thought the world of my daughter and she has a brother who at the time was doing way too much drinking and she loves her brother dearly. He truly is a good guy biggest fault being he is a workacholic. Sooo she arranged a blind date for her brother and my daughter. They dated for many months and one day I asked her why she hadn't brought him home to meet me and she said it was not going to happen until she knew for sure where the relationship was going to go because she knew very well I would love him to pieces and in the event it didn't work out she didn't want to hurt me. It finally happened she did bring him to meet me and just as she expected I thought he was Mr. right. They lived together after that and after a while she said she would have to go because she was ready to settle down and she didn't want it to be with a drinking man. He gave up the bottle and only now has the very odd drink, they're married and have two wonderful children. My grandson just turned 8 and my granddaughter is 5. Good luck Polly and watch out for the sparks when they start to fly dear friend!!! Hope he realizes he has to love Maxine too!!!lol
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
That story is so sweet. I am so glad that it all worked out for your daughter. What was really funny with all of this was what came about before the date. Us 5 girls were being naughty, talking racy, hehe. I finally told them to quit talking about the s*e*x* word, that I hadn't had any. Then I said I wanted a man with money, one of the girls spoke up and said what about my dad. He is lonely and has some money. The other girls went with it, they had it all set up before I could blink. My friend asked the girls if they had told this guy about my height, they said no, they never thought about it. It was funny seeing the expression on his face. I hope I have met a new friend, its nice to have someone to do things with. I so hope that your situation gets better.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
I truely wish I could help you, it would be fun. Good luck with the rest of your life. Will you be close to your daughter and her family? I hope so, family is everything. I don't know if I told you that my daughter and her family moved across the street from me. My house apes are back in my house, but that is only temporary (knock wood), they are geting the house next door. They just have to do some work on it before moving in.
• Canada
8 May 09
My situation got better today, I found an appartment. I move in on June 1st. The only problem is I need your help. I am only 5'2" and need a ladder to get in the cupboards. I need a six foot friend. lol
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
8 May 09
Blind dates....they scare the wubbers out of me lol. I've only ever been on one, and I swore never again. That was a long time ago. I think friends who do that coming from the right place. They see two people who might have common interests and figure they might hit it off. Even though I'm short (5'2") mine was with a guy they said was taller, he turned out to be eye level. That part aside, there was a womanizing attitude that I didn't care for and couldn't picture myself on another date with him. It definitely did NOT work out. I'm glad you got to go out though, you deserve to go out and have a nice time cause, well, you never know when the luv bug might actually hit. Personally, I haven't been on a date in a couple of years. The last one I had I was seriously afraid when I saw the guys volitile temper over little trivial things.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Thanks Joy, I wish you a wonderful Mother's Day too. My mom and I are going back up to the Casino, she is turning into the gambler. She wins $10 and wants to win more money, hehe. We are both cheap gamblers, we like the penny machines. You know me, I can jabber to anyone and about anything. I don't see a romance, thats even scarier. I can't even imagine that. I am hoping that I have a new friend.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
I hadn't been on a date for close to 30 years, you talk about being scared and nervous. Seeing the guys expression was priceless, there is a big difference in our height. He is short enough and I am tall enough, if he gets out of hand, I can squash him. He has been the perfect gentleman and I do know the people who know him. They wouldn't try to fix me up with a nut case. We will see if he calls me again, I don't think I am too scary.
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
8 May 09
30 years...I'd be nervous too lol (heck, dating makes me nervous anyways) You? Scary?! Naw...you couldn't be scary if you tried, (and I'm really laughin at the 'squish' comment hahaha.) Hope you and your Mom have a wonderful Mother's Day Hugs to you both....Joy
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
8 May 09
A long time ago, I was on a blind date. It worked out all right. I was not scared and he did not run in fright. We were able to talk, but for some reason, we did not hit it, so that never turned out. It happened in my 20s when I was first starting to date. But now I am 66, so I do not recall everything about that period of my life.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
This is my first blind date, I don't see a romance, but hopefully I met a new friend.
@TnWoman (1895)
• United States
8 May 09
hello polly that is great that you went out on a blind date last night and had a great time! and your height and his height shouldn't make any difference to either one of you like that. lol and to answer your question about blind dates, no i haven't ever been on a blind date before. lol btw, where did you-all go to eat? and you are correct, if the sparkes do not fly, like romance wise, then don't worry about it, you-all can still be friends. take care and have a beautiful evening.
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Hello, Haven't seen you in awhile, hope all is well. We went to a nice family restaurant, we both had the cat fis dinner. It was nice to get out. I do know that he is a nice kind man, we are supposed to go someplace on Saturday. I wish you a beautiful evening too.
• United States
8 May 09
I had one blind date and it really wasn't too bad! We dated for a few months afterwards too. It just inda fizzled out.. no problems but the blind date was kinda fun really! He was a friend of friends so it wasn't like someone from outer space or anything!
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Thanks for stopping by and welcome to mylot, we are a great group of people who love to talk. Newbies are always welcomed. Thanks for your response.
@smacksman (6053)
8 May 09
Good for you and how brave of you. Yes, I think it is brave to 'gird your loins' for a blind date. If it matures into friendship then even better. Friends at any age are priceless. The only blind dates I've had have been to were arranged to meet at a party so they were not really so blind as a meeting for dinner for two. There were plenty of people and friends about to keep the conversation flowing and things to do. Also an escape route for the poor girl!! haha I'm happy to be friends with anybody but I'm not very experienced to 'read the signals' given out by girls/women/ladies which tends to frustrate them when I fail to pick them up and act on them. Heyho!
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
What you said is so true, "Friends at any age is priceless". I don't see any romance with this guy, but hopefully we can be friends. I am hoping that he feels the same way, mostly about the romance part. Thats were it gets really scary.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
10 May 09
I have been on a blind date before and it sis not work out at all. I wish I had been blind on that date. It was a mess and I left in a hurry.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
12 May 09
This guy isn't scary....yet. I don't see any sparks, maybe we can just be friends.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
12 May 09
What happened to your last beau, Polly? Not enough meat of him? LOL Sorry, I still remember that photo of you and that skeleton (I mean, your man LOL). Anyway, to answer your question, no I've never had a blind date. I married young and as I'm still married to the same man 14 years later I don't think he'd appreciate me going out on a blind date, or any date for that matter! LOL But then again, who knows? After all, I never asked him!
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
12 May 09
I had alot of fun with that pic of my "man". All the other guys are having a hard time living up to him. I keep comparing him to them, LOL.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
22 May 09
Who can blame you? He's hard to top! LOL
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@orderfox (231)
• China
8 May 09
Bless you and you find a friend for dinner at any time, in the time you need to accompany you around.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Thanks so much, and welcome to mylot.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
8 May 09
That's awesome Polly!! You go girl!! You deserve it and who knows, maybe it'll turn into something later on and then again, maybe not but at least you're out having a wonderful time and that's all that matters!! lol Hubby and I went out tonight for my last "real" food for probably a month because tomorrow I'm having the rest of my bottoms pulled or "dug" out for there's nothing there but roots with caps on top, anyway, we saw what had to be the tallest or next to, man in this world! He must've been 7 foot something!! He was TALL!! His wife was shorter than ME and I'm only 5 ft 5 in!! lol That happens a lot and it does make me wonder where's the attraction? lol because how can they see each other without breaking their necks or backs? lol
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Good luck Cats, I will be thinking about you tomorrow. I feel so sorry for you. I hope it all goes well. I once knew a guy that was 7'4" his nickname was "tree". As to our height difference, the girls were teasing and said it would be perfect, he would be at the right height for all the goodies, my so called goodies. My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's, the girls we had with us are in their 20's. I don't know who was talking naughtier them or us. Our day out with the girls was so much fun, we laughed so much we had tears and our bellies hurt. I haven't been on a date for almost 30 years, it went well though. Hugs for tomorrow.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Thats a unique way of meeing someone. Get while the getting is good. Its even better if the guy has lots of money. I will have to keep this in mind for a way of meeting eligible men.
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• United States
8 May 09
{{{POLLY}}} YOU GO GIRLFRIEND!!! Bravo to you!! I myself hate blind dates always did and only ever accepted one, that's the last one I'll ever do too and that was a lifetime ago...LOL!! if nothing else like you said I hope you have gained a new friend and if it becomes something "special"...then AWESOME RIGHT??? keep us posted!!! You know us "myloter's want to know"
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
9 May 09
I never did the blind date thing neither. Them girls set it all up, I don't see any romance, but hopefully a new friend. I got a free dinner out of it, plus it shows the kids that gramma still has it, LOL..I don't know what "it" is though. Of course I will let you "myloter's" know what happens. That is if I haven't scared the poor guy away.
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
10 May 09
""UPDATE"" I guess I didn't scare the poor guy away. We spent the day together, we had a nice day and a good dinner too. Nothing big to report.
@venmarz13 (735)
• Indonesia
8 May 09
yeah i ever do blinddate before i find my boyfriend.yup im not enjoying it.usually i only want to add more friend only not to find mr.right .usually he do it with others too.so for me i dont really like blinddate.i like if someone love me so i will love he too.but it need long time to get
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
9 May 09
This was my first blind date. Thanks for stopping by.
@yoyozhou (356)
• China
8 May 09
Oh,what's your feeling about him?If you have a good expression of him,going on.If you don't like any more,just stop.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Hello welcome to mylot, Thanks so much for stopping by and responding.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
28 May 09
Well Vicky, it doesn'r matter about the height, as long as you have fun with this person. wow, I didn't know you were that tall, you are about as tall as my Husband. How did you feel when you saw him and he was shorter than you? I really don't think it matters, I don't guess, do you think it matters? As long as you both don't have a problem with it, then it isn't a problem. Yay! Vicky got a date!
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
28 May 09
After the first date we went out again. At times I thought to myself, "what did I get myself into", hehe. He has called 2 times since then but I was busy. I think he thinks I might have been giving him excuses, I actually wasn't but I'm relieved he hasn't called back. He is nice but sort of weird. I am glad that he didn't try to kiss me, I would have had to squash the bug, haha.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
8 May 09
i have not gone for dates with anyone other than my hubby(before we got married),so the blind date is out of question.in your case,this blind date scenario looks quite interesting,hope you have a good time.
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• United States
8 May 09
I have been on a couple of blind dates. None of them worked out for me. What they did do is to boost my confidence about getting back into the dating game. Kinf like a warm-up. I was able to practice being interesting and interested on someone that I was likely to never see again.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 May 09
Thats a good way of looking at blind dates, its practice. I don't see a romance, but hopefully a new friend.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
10 Jun 09
Blind date......... wow that was an interesting post. To be honest with you I really can't say that I've been on blind date because I always say that I want to see a picture of the other person before I make a commitment to it. Then by the time I see the picture I will know if I want to take things any further or not. Hee hee, good luck with your new manI"m happy for you. It's been a long time since I've been out on a date too but I guess once you get married the dates seem to diminish somewhat, unfortunately.