Do you think you can have more than one soulmate?

United States
May 8, 2009 10:32am CST
I've ran into several people during my lifetime that I felt a really close connection to. Some, I haven't known very long. I feel so comfortable with them. I can talk to them about anything.We have a bond that is stronger than my bond with others. I assume this would be my soulmate, but do you think it is possible for a person to have more than one soulmate?
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• India
19 May 09
when you say soulmate , I think what you are talking about is a friend.A close friend that he/she shares almost everything with...correct? Well I think you can have more than one soulmate but there is a degree of importance that would make them different.This may be due to where you've met them ( e.g. college friend etc), a relative(an aunt, uncle etc), or your parents itself. You can't just give everyone the same degree of you respect.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
7 Jun 09
I think one can have lots of close friends, but only one soul mater.
• Philippines
17 May 09
I'm not being negative about it, but I don't believe that it exist, I never experienced it, I just imagined it , and it turned out not true don't have soulmate, but have friends I guess soulmate is such a heavy word for me with lots of expectation that in the end I'll get disappointed coz it never turned out the way it should be but good for you, for having thought you found your soulmate well not one but more
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@Archie0 (4669)
17 May 09
Well i think there is no limit to love and be loved, but yes for being with a person who is different from all those and has that special features of being one of his kinds is ofcourse your soulmate and i think its only with one person.If we could get many soulmates we could have many souls too.Its just we can get many bodies as our soul keeps changing them when we die, But we never get many soulmates because we got only one soul...and we are only with one no matter how hard we think that we can get them.. The one soulmate we have with us is not from now but from many ages, as our soul changes the body after it decomposes same way does his, but we meet again for ages and he is the only one that can be recognised only by our hearts, because that is the purest part of our body, it makes the impure too into a pure form...and that is our blood. cheers!!!
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@Bearballew (1149)
• United States
8 May 09
I believe I only have one soul. However, out of that soul comes love for many. Mother Father Sister Brother. Children. Parts of my soul are in those I choose to give it to. I am sure you can have more than one soul mate, but each love will be different, just as the mates are different. And to be healthiest... have them at different times in your life. I truly believe there is ONE someOne that will always mean more, be loved deeper and will be missed most when seperated from. Other soulmates may come into your life before or after you find this One, but I believe there is only ONE that is the One that is uncomparable.
• Australia
9 Jun 09
I personally think you can have more than one soul mate, as many I have known have been married a couple of times and lost thier first soul mate and ended up with another. I feel that we all have many soul mates out there wheter they came to us as a friend, a lover and spouse. But we can connect to others from out past life with them. Overall is it is possible to have more than one.
• Canada
9 Jun 09
Just because they married again doesnt mean that that is their soulmate... im not here to judge your opinion but there are lost of people out there that have been married more than once but if you ask them who their soulmate is they can probably only give you one name.
• United States
14 Jun 09
I do think that you will have more then one soul mate. But each soulmate will have a different pourpose. The man I am in love with I do belive that if we die and were given another life we wouold search for each other a love like our only happen once. we offten joke about being vampires and living as long as we could together to get this thing right.But I also have a friend whom is close to me but not in a romantic sort of a way but he is meant to be a teacher to me. I think our soul are connected to certian people.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 09
that could not have know who our soulmate. sometimes we feel that he is a soulmate, but after that time is running, we know that he is not a soulmate.
@Citychic (4078)
• United States
13 Jun 09
do u think u can have more than one soul mate? Hi friend, yes I do believe it's possible to have more than one soul mate. Perhaps the real soul mate there is a very strong connection with then the others are just people that you share a connection with but it's not a real strong connection. This is what I believe. I guess I'm still looking to meet my one special soul mate even though I've had strong connection in my past with one or two.....Thanks for sharing, happy mylot.
@AlyssaCB (68)
• Canada
9 Jun 09
You can have a connection to someone without them being your soulmate. You only have once soul and there is one perfect mate for your soul (soulmate) you can have a platonic connection with another person, but i wouldnt define it as a soulmate persay.
• United States
7 Jun 09
I dont think so. i mean there are people, like those you described, but I think that is more in the friend level. i really do believe there is only one soul mate for each person.
@ny1009 (36)
• Malaysia
19 May 09
I agree with Bearballew regarding the defination of soulmate. For me, soulmate is the person that can fulfill me in and out. That's mean that person not only can sastify me physically but most important are mental and emotionally.Of course that person is my husband.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
19 May 09
You can get more than one soul mate that is possible because you might have seen in the past incarnations and you get interest to see the person again and again so it is really great experience to those kind of people.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
17 May 09
I don't think it is possible for a person to have more than one soul mate. A person can have only one soul mate in his or her life. We can get lots of good friends, but only one soul mate or one life partner. Most times we do feel close with lots of people in our life.