cevical cancer

Philippines
May 8, 2009 7:56pm CST
this past few weeks ... i was diagnose ... i have cervical cancer... i dont want to tell anyone about it.. last night while making love with my special someone...i cried, coz its painful and im not enjoying it anymore..he stop and asked me if his still satisfying me... i heart broke in million pieces... of course he still satisfy me. i love him more than anything... thinking i have to leave him breaks my heart! so i just cry all nyt .. then i told him the truth.. he cried .. i dont like medication anymore! its not practical for someone like me... i asked him to leave me... i dont want to see him sad.... im dying ..... i want him to move on.. and be happy... i dont know what to do anymore!
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9 responses
• United States
9 May 09
Being diagnosed with cancer doesn't necessarily mean you won't still live a long healthy life. You may live for another 60+ years, who knows. I would encourage you to do what the physicians are telling you to and if your partner loves you and wants to stay with you and support you, then you should allow them to. A good support system is always important in any situation, especially one like this. Good luck!
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• Philippines
9 May 09
yes i guess your all right i should take treatment..... thank you
@acie_21 (5647)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
hi there friend.. im very sorry to hear that.. cervical cancer is very prone to us woman..and it hurts a lot knowing that we have one of this..dont loose faith my friend pray to God and ask him to give you the strength and the courage for you to fight this ... dont break up with your bf thats not gonna help...it will just hurt you both.. you need someone to guide you and make you strong..to help you and to make you happy.. and thats your love one.. life is short and make us of it to spend time with him.. and live life to the fullest.. God has His purpose, reasons and plans for us.. just stay with Him and He'll never leave us.. have faith my friend!... thanks! take care!
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
hi thanks you. im doing the medicatio already.
@acie_21 (5647)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
thanks for the Br my friend... i really appreciate it a lot that you understand my advice to you.. it doesnt end there my friend.. life is sweet!... specially when you have someone to hold on forever!.... oh.......love!hehehe! am.. can i ask you a personal question?? just answer it in my private message.. if you like.. is this cervical cancer inherited??? in your situation?? thanks ones again my friend!.. hugs and kisses!..
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
9 May 09
This is very sad to read. Cervical cancer is one of the easiest cancers to treat if caught early enough on. I have had it twice. The first time it was caught right off and corrected real quick. The 2nd time was a bit more complicated but still that was 7 years ago and I'm still here and healthy. I know you are in another country. They don't do surgery to remove your cancer? I'm so sorry. I will pray for a miracle for you.
• Philippines
9 May 09
i live in philippines.... thank you for the prayers.. i will try treatments .. thank you again!
@agv0419 (3029)
• Philippines
9 May 09
I know it is very difficult to face and to be strong if you diagnosed an illness. I think you need to see a doctor that would really help you. You are so young to have this kind of cancer. Human papiloma virus is the cause of this cancer from what I heard the carrier of this is the male. Now that there is a vaccine for this but not that affordable by now I think I would lessen the case of cervical cancer in the future. I pray for you and I hope you would stay strong.
@scapula (760)
• Jordan
9 May 09
what stage you have, I think every think have a treatment, and you have to manage your life and not just escape from reality, you love him don't let him go, you aren't dying, you have just to cope with this and take your medication and I hope you will be better, even cancers in early stages could be curable and no need for further treatment once disappear, just don't loos your trust of your self and keep your soul high, don't let things control you, your stronger than that. So please seek medical advice and keep with your doctor, don't give up. this is important: because your feeling and consideration are part of your managements, the positive thinking you have the greater outcome. And of course you need the one you love around you in this case to get over this. Don't let your love go away, keep with him and continue your life even if this painful, seek medical advice and tell your doctor she/he will know how to act.
@meandmy3 (2228)
• United States
9 May 09
I am really confused by this, Cervical cancer can be cured, it really is as simple as removing your cervix, if it has moved to your lymph nodes then they can remove them as well. I have had two bouts with Cervical cancer, the first time we did the Leep procedure to remove the area that was affected the second I did a hysterectomy to remove every thing but my ovaries. I would seek a different opinion and make sure that it is as bad as your doctor is making it out be. Good Luck and God Bless
@biggerb (2028)
• India
9 May 09
Cheer up! This is not the end of all. You have a life to live.Think positively and for heaven's sake DON'T GIVE UP.Go to the doctors get help and take medication.I know many people who have survived cancer and who are living life to the fullest.I have a standing example right in front of me.My husband's aunt is 80+ she had cancer.She took treatment and now she is fine.She hates anyone to even remind her that she was ill.She is so full of life helping all of us very independent and very cheerful and active.I hope and pray that you gather yourself and get well soon.
• Cebu, Philippines
9 May 09
OMG! If I were in your situation i would feel the same way and do the same thing. But your partner is right, you need to do medication maybe there is still a way that you can cure it, miracles i would say. Consult right away to the doctor, maybe they can do something you know..Don't loose hope. Right now, I'm thinking of having a vaccine for cervical cancer. I hate it because they will inject it, I'm scared of needles that's why I hate it. If there's only a way that i could just intake it by oral I would. So, before it's too late I will have my vaccine as soon as I have money for it coz it's very expensive and it will take you 3 injections to complete it.
@marguicha (99969)
• Chile
9 May 09
You broke my heart, sweetie! So young! But please, go to the doctors. There are surgery, medications, many things. What did the doctor say? But if your loved one loves you too, he will want to be with you. Why do you say that you don´t want more medication? The doctors will have to say the last word about that. Don´t despair. A big hug!