Which is more important in a relationship, is it compliment or being compatible?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
May 10, 2009 8:38pm CST
For me it's being compatible, same dislikes and likes, hobbies, attitude in life, food, and principles. So even we don't talk often, we still knows that we understand each other more.Seldom would we question each other, and argue. Have a nice day to all of you!
2 responses
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
11 May 09
If you ask me my friend I would prefer someone compatible, rather someone who is probaly what I am not - which I surmise you have used the term "complement" to mean. Complement as a possible partner is welcome only if you feel you love some characteristics that are not yours, but you long that it were there in you. Otherwise I would bet on and vote for compatibility.I often wish that there were more means, methods and measures to check compatibility that are more or less unfailingly reliable. Ask someone who is tired of making elastic adjustments to markedly different personalities you would get this answer.
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
15 May 09
n30wing, man, I am living it day in and day out. More so because in India marriages are sacred and seldom broken on not-so-important "incompatibilities". What is tiring is the infinite amount of "adjustments" one needs to make. And sometimes the "adjustments" have a monetary cost element too.An affordable effort cannot and will not be grudged. But if you are pushed too much and so much that you pant in exhaustion-- well, the one thing that eggs one on is the other panting you know where makes it all interesting.
! But often you also want to wear the pants!
Thanks a lot for marking best response, friend!
! But often you also want to wear the pants!
Thanks a lot for marking best response, friend!
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
11 May 09
I also believe differences hold relationships together.. but personally I prefer someone who also believes in the same value and principles as I have. Honesty is also important in a relationship. :)
