how many partners have you had in a lifetime?

United States
May 11, 2009 9:30pm CST
I am curious about this. I have had about 12 partners in my life so far. I am planning on getting married soon so I hope that is all I will have :) Anyway so how many partners have you had so far in your life? Thanks for any posts, I look foward to them as well.
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• China
12 May 09
your question is very funny,i think,i am very surprised to know that you have had 12 parents so far.I just have had 2 parents in my life so far,i think i will have 4 parents in few years.in our country ,there is few people who has 8 parents in all its life.I have never heard somebody has more than 8 parents so far,but i don't mean the fewer parents the better it is,maybe the more the better.
12 May 09
Hi Robinson324, Momtry meant partners not parents lo1! Tamara
• China
12 May 09
Oh,sorry.i didn't discern clearly.
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• China
12 May 09
it is personal secret,i don't want to talk it in public.
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
12 May 09
I have had only 1 partner in my life and the experience wasn't that good thus I left that idea of having partner. So, one(1) is my number.
• United States
12 May 09
That is ashame maybe you should give love another chance. YOu never know someone that fits just you could be out there and maybe you should give that a chance. Take care and thanks for taking part in my discussion.
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
12 May 09
I didn't know if it was a shame but I just don't want to hurt one more time!
• India
13 May 09
i am 32 and i have no one in my hole life i think its my bad luck.
• India
13 May 09
any one can not believe and even i think that is the most worst am i
• United States
13 May 09
I have had 10 partners total. A few of them were long term relationships, others shorter. My husband was my 10th and last :)
• United States
13 May 09
Cool I hope that for myself too. I have been with my current boyfriend for 10 years and we are getting married real soon. We are just waiting for the right time and money, Also I want to welcome you to mylot as well socitycourty:) Take care and I hope to see you around more often as well.
• Philippines
12 May 09
i'm still young so i only have 5 but thats enough because i want to enjoy myself first and foremost. i'm planning to get married to but in due time. hope the right man will come.
• United States
13 May 09
Hi there Daydreamer2; You are so right the right man is out there for you and there is no reason to put yourself out there for anyone and everyone that wants some. I wish that I would have been more picky about my choices but I live my life this way no regrets I had something I had to learn. Take care and happy mylotting to you as well.
• India
12 May 09
i had more then 15 partners till now , when ever i wish to have i bring a new partner in that way i have more then 15 partners, i am also planning to get married but still some more time so well some more partners.
• United States
13 May 09
Why the double post? I wonder if this was an acciendent Take care :)
@iwrite (5042)
• Singapore
12 May 09
I had six partners before my wife, I think I would be stopping at seven. Anyway that is my favorite number. I should think this is the one, however I am still only 33, who knows what is going to happen.
@anangf (1148)
• Indonesia
12 May 09
i have to reminded again.. the experience is so long ago. i have 2 children now, and i stop partnering except my wife. you do right iwrite..
• United States
12 May 09
i have had 5 been with current boyfriend 8 yrs
• United States
12 May 09
That is good I wish I could say that, but I cant. I guess everyone is different I give a lot of respect to that and take care and happy mylotting as well.
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12 May 09
Hi momtry, Oh at my age now there are too many to count lo1! one of them I was with for 6 years and then we broke up, then another one was 6 months then we got married and I'm still with him and its 30 years now together. Tamara
• United States
12 May 09
Cool thanks for the feedback, I would like to stay with the guy I am with but we have our issues. We have been together for a long time and I think we like it that way. You never know who you are gonna stay with. One guy 6 years another guy known him 6 months and than you get married take care and thanks for helping me out below:) Happy mylotting also :)
@EvrWonder (3577)
• Canada
12 May 09
In my lifetime, I have had a grand total of three partners with whom I was involved with longterm. Other than that I have dated maybe five more, on an ongoing basis. When I was in school, I had the odd boyfriend. If I recall correct, I think I can count them all on both hands.
• United States
12 May 09
Cool I did not date all the guys I slept with. To me I did not need to date them. Most were on a whim in the spree of the moment. I think that we were just attracted to each other and it went from there. But could we have had a relationship? No for me it was not meant to be. Thanks for taking the time to take part in my discussion and happy mylotting as well.
@phifer (515)
• United States
14 May 09
only 7 and thats including my current partner that i have right now. i couldnt say the same about my current partner. i dont even know now many he's had, but all i i that its over 50 people. when i first heard this i was a little shocked and distrubed by the idea that he's been with that many girls. i learned to deal with and i know happy that i'm the last one that he's going to have and i have to say that a least he's learned how to please me with all the experance that he's gotten.
@Wadon30 (211)
• Malaysia
13 May 09
Zero! so far..LOL! So are you sad because after marriage that is all you are going to have?;-)
@amirev777 (2552)
• India
12 May 09
hi i have been quite unlucky in this regards-i have just had one gurl in my entire life-i am still sticking with her and plan to stick with her in future-may look quite absurd to u-that too considering i m a sailor, since they say-'sailor has wife at every port'.i have been to strip clubs but have never slept with any of them. that does not mean i dont fantasize sleeping with beautiful women.
@mzj033y (185)
• United States
12 May 09
It's great that you finally found your most loved. I congratulate you and I hope I can be at that stage soon. Actually I never dated in my whole life because I am not a sociable person. I am trying really hard to communicate with more people so that I can find Mr. Right. I am also trying really hard to finish up with college and get a degree so that I can be someone in life. But i actually met someone online that I really like and we talk for nearly two years now. He said he will come here soon but I am not sure when since he is busy working oversea now. I know you have to earn trust in order to meet that person because it's very dangerous. But i could trust him. I started to realized how frustrating it is not to be able to see him and could only talk to him via phone or on the internet. It's really tiring afterwards. I wish he can come here soon. With the distance we're living apart, communications start to lag and sometimes he doesn't understand how I feel.
• Philippines
12 May 09
I've had 3 partners so far. But if it's online we're gonna talk about, it'll be 8. But don't get me wrong. I was never serious with my online partners.. What I meant by online partners is the people whom I met in chat, or in online games. But in real life, I've only had 2 serious relationships. I broke up with the first one and now, me and my boyfriend are on our on-going serious-ever relationship. This is a very interesting discussion. Happy myLotting! =)
@cuzzim (1)
• United States
12 May 09
To many to count. The thing I wish for is that I could take them all back. I have a wonderful wife now and it's not being honest to her. I won't tell you the hole story but, I will tell you, I've hurt people. I've been hurt.I wonder if there's some out there that the relationship would be better with. The problem is,with all the past lovers, you're never truly satisfied. You keep looking (as a man) and somewhere out there is a person looking to help you out. It's not hard finding a partner, there everywhere. The hard part is saying no, and understanding what you have IS the best.
@moondancer (7434)
• United States
12 May 09
I have had 5 all in total in my many years of life. I just spent too many of those years with the wrong person. And 18 with my now partner and wonderful husband.
• India
12 May 09
i had more then 15 partners till now , when ever i wish to have i bring a new partner in that way i have more then 15 partners, i am also planning to get married but still some more time so well some more partners.
• United States
12 May 09
I happy to announce that at my age of twenty seven I have only had three partners all which I was in long term relationships with of three years or longer. I have always been one top respect my body and decided a long time ago that I was not just going to get with anyone. One of those three partners is my husband who i have been with for ten years now.