First person you will turn to when you are sad?
12 May 09
In my younger years, when i got problem, i usually turn to my mum for support. She is very kind and a good problem solver, too. That's why, i always choose my mum. After i am married, i usually turn to my husband. Because he also have this kind of good problem solving knowledge..
12 May 09
Well, you are lucky to have an elder sister for you to turn to. As for me, i am the eldest in my family, so i only can turn to my mum as my father always worked outstation. Luckily, my mum willing to listen to my problem even when she was busy..
23 Aug 09
Dear med, I normally will tell my mum... but at times I do not want her to worry about me, then I will tell to my husband. It depends on the situations and the reason that make me sad. If I am sad due to my family members, then I will shared it to my close friends. If it is because of work, then to my close colleague or my 2nd sister or my husband...I do not have a fixed person that I will go to! If my husband make me sad, I will shared it to my little boy (my son)...he knows how I feel and he is very understanding :) If due to health, then I will shared it with my eldest sister, she is very experienced and very loving... Btw, we can always share it here at myLot, many friendly myLotters here are very loving, understanding and caring too... All in all, I will share it in my prayer...and submit it to God! All the best and take care! Do keep in touch :)
22 Aug 09
hi med, i frankly can say that i have no one to console me in that moment. yes i have family having parents and a sister but if thewy fin me unhappy then they become upset more than me. they begin to cry. so moreover times i hide my sadness and react that there is nothing to worry about. lol
28 Jul 09
If my weakest time occur the person I will turn to is my boyfriend and at the same time I treat him as my bestfriend. I choose him for he knows me a lot. He can understands me. I trust him. And because of the feeling of being comfort whenever he's there beside me. Goodday!
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
7 Jun 09
I'd have to say that I turn to my fiance when I'm sad, when I need a shoulder to cry on. I think that, at this point, he's the only one that I can go and who will actually listen to what I have to say. I know that I can easily talk to him, when I'm sad, or just need to talk to. I can really be opened with him. I can't say that about a lot of people, about a lot of family members, or about a lot of friends.