PLEASE do not FORCE me!

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
May 12, 2009 9:11pm CST
Ok, i was having an argument with my husband, i had discussions before about him commenting on me being flabby well thank God he stopped that. But lately another thing has been going on. this time its about the future, he will be going back to school this June to finish some units in college ( he let mine finished last year and i am grateful for that) but he also wants me to start my masteral degree this june as well but what i have in mind is different, i want to change careers.. ( that is in another discussion lol) but he keeps on bugging me to do that because that would mean higher pay... but i am not yet ready and i told him that..and he got mad and he is not speaking to me for days now....ugh i just want to remove this burden that is why started this discussion.
4 responses
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
13 May 09
yes,you husband tried to force you to study more in school.what he wanted just hope you get higher pay.hmmmm.i think it is hard to study moree and both of you to study together.is it only way to get higher pay? well,so bad he didn't speak to you for days and i thin he is still mad for that.just try to talk again with your huband calmly,what you really think and try to ask him to understand your feeling.good luck ,be happy ,friend
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
13 May 09
oh yes i know he want what is good for me, but then i want to follow the passion of my heart. sigh...
@iblueman (28)
• China
17 May 09
well,as i see it,i think the main reason is lack of conmunication,it would be avoided if you talk about the similar topic with each other.actually,your husband is good for you,it seems certain that he want to a better life than you have,so ,talking to him more and have a nicer life!
• United States
16 May 09
the way i see it if he can respect your opinion and understand that your not ready then that just down right rude...and honestly if it was me id make him understand and be firm with him and let him know right then and tell him im not ready im not doing it understand it accept it end of conversaion LOL and then walk away lol
• Philippines
14 May 09
i think your husband what's good for both of you, but he should think also what you want..