OMG I'm Scared To Fall Inlove Again!!!!!

Philippines
May 13, 2009 7:13am CST
Sounds crazy right.. but I never thought about falling inlove again after four years of being single.. It just s*cks that after many years of prioritizing my dreams, my career as a student, my family and goals in life, i'm now faced with this situation.. I don't know if i'm ready but i really like this person.
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5 responses
@nzalheart (2352)
• India
15 Jun 09
Hello cecille!!! Love and carrier is different thing. Don't take love as the barrier for your carrier. Infact, love can be the inspiration. It depends on how you take. For me, I take it as the inspiration. But I am not really in love for now hehe...Seems like I have retired from that life and now I am happy to me single. And those days too, I used to take love as an inspiration. But it was more emotional problems not to talk about hehe...Overall, I have to say that was the great experience and the experience that taught many things in life... And it is really great that you fell in love again. So its one month already, what's the climax?? happy mylotting..
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• Philippines
15 Jun 09
Oh well, I think I just freaked out when I became attracted to him.. Sooner I realize he's really not my type.. and like you i'm also happy being single hehe =D i just love to be around friends and family all the time.
@nzalheart (2352)
• India
15 Jun 09
hmm, so that was just a crush, happens to me too sometimes... Enjoy life...
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@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
go for it... since you had accomplished the roles in your dreams and your family, so now it's better for you to prioritize your self. it's your time to be happy. cease the moment and be happy with that someone maybe that guy is in need of your attention... don't be scared in falling in love, when love is true pain follows. it's normal... treat pain as a way of making yourself stronger.
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• Philippines
15 Jun 09
Maybe after graduation and when I am sure that my family is financially stable through my support I'd go for him.. I believe love can wait. =D but thanks for your opinion, I appreciate it. It's just that for me, I wanted to do things at the right time.
@vivianchen (2648)
• China
14 May 09
Hi Celillecarmela, I understand your feeling. I've been hurt badly in my last relationship because i am in love with him too much. When i was with him, i spent almost all i free time with him, so i did not have much friends other than him. But here i am, i fall in love again with a new guy, which i thought this will never happen to me. I was single for 2 year, and i found him, we are going to get married at the end of this year. So, my experience is, never afraid to fall in love again. Don't think it for the bad side, what if he is the right guy for you? You mihgt lose him just because you are afraid to get hurt. Give him a chance and give yourself a chance. Good luck!
• Philippines
14 May 09
Thanks vivian :) just have to weigh things as of now.. :)
• India
13 May 09
i kinda have the same thing..u kno wat shiveda and yiazmat u two actually opened my eyes..thanks a lot :)
• India
13 May 09
my bad...shivedi :)
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• Philippines
19 Jun 09
don't be scared to fall in love.everything in this life is about taking a risk.just don't forget your family,friends,dreams and most importantly yourself.you should love yourself first before being with someone who'll love you wholeheartedly.
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