Crossroads

@my2boys (821)
United States
May 14, 2009 5:36am CST
What do you do when you are at a crossroads in life? What do you do when you have a life changing decision to make? I am struggling with a very hard deicision right now. It is hard for me because whatever decision I make will not only change my life but my kids lives also. My kids are the most important thing to me and I would never want to do anything to hurt them. I am not going to make any hasty decisions. I am going to give it a while. I have been struggling with this for so long. I just have no idea what to do. I have prayed, asked others for advice, weighed the positives and negatives of each choice but I still have no idea what to do. What do you do when you have a hard decision to make in life?
3 responses
jillhill
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
14 May 09
I do the same thing you are doing right now....I mull it over before I make a decison....and pray....and usually the answer comes to me when I least expect it...so good luck to you making this difficult decision....
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chillpill90
@chillpill90 (1936)
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14 May 09
when i have a hard choice to make i always seek advice from some friends or some parents. Then think about wat they have said then see if i can make a choice if not i keep thinking.sometimes i go on gut instincts and they pay off but i understand that you cant do this because of the kids.
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springseaside
@springseaside (107)
• China
17 May 09
It seems a big crossroad for you.The kids are so lucky and happy just for they have such nice mom.The struggle is torture to stand,But how to resolve it? For my part,maybe you can tell all of this to your kinds and ask for help or let them join the choice-making. It's wonderful for people to be needed and valued. and the onther question,when i have a hard decision to make in my life,i will think of the results of every choice and compare to them,and choose the decision of the lowest regret rate. Happy mylotting.