WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR BOYFRIEND HAD A KID BEHIND YOUR BACK...

Sweden
November 11, 2006 7:39pm CST
Tell me please... im in this sittuation. He told me one year later after we met that he had a son with another woman (in another country.)
3 responses
• United States
12 Nov 06
well...do you love him?..because if you do stay with him..if you arent ready to be a step mom ..then you still have the option to leave before you get serious...
• Sweden
12 Nov 06
i am thinking about it. I dont know right now... he lied to me in one year. I actually dont know.... -sigh-
• Sweden
12 Nov 06
As I told you he comes from Marocko and me from Sweden. Marocko is not member of the EU and many of those people who are living in Marocko want to come to europe. My boyfriend and I met eachother last summer in July. I got a possitive result on the test of pregnancy and my son was born in August 2006. My boyfriend was in Sweden elligal untill I got pregnant and he searched for permit-recidence because of relatives in Sweden (his son.) Now he recieved a temporary recidence-permit which is walid one year. One week ago he told me that our son we have together, has a brother. He told that he had a girlfriend before from Marocko. She lived in Italy elligal, but he had recidence-permit untill he made some problem there and had to leave Italy for ten years. If the girl was Italian I wouldnt bother so much, in the fact that she would come from a EU-country. But a marrocan? Maybe all was planed. Its difficoult to come here. I am scared he only have used me to take himself and his old girlfriend to Sweden and marry her. Even thoug he has said that he never got any contact with the kid before. He only saw the kid three weeks untill the girlfriend left him. But it sounds stange in my ears... what do you think?
@amsharma (1863)
• United States
12 Nov 06
If he got another girl pregnant while he was in a relationship with me, that would be the end of. No questions asked.
• Sweden
12 Nov 06
me too
@mirage108 (3403)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I am a guy and I sorta had the same situation. I got accused of lying. when I got married my wife had asked me if I had any childen. I said no at the time because I didnt know of any. about a year and a half after we were married an x gfriend sent me a letter saying I had a daughter, and wasnt asking for anything just wanted to let me know. my wife at the time said I lied to her, and about a year and a half after that and a deployment in the navy asked me for a divorce. this was the result. might be the same thing happening to you might be similiar
• Sweden
12 Nov 06
no... my boyfriend comes from another country. I live in Sweden (EU.) He comes from Marocco. He lied for me only to recieve recidence-permit I think.