why would someone try to get involved with someone who is married

United States
May 16, 2009 4:14pm CST
this is a question that has been bothering me, why would a girl try to get with a guy who is married , when there are pleanty of single guys out there.
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@fwidman (11515)
• United States
16 May 09
There are a few reasons why a single girl would want a married man. There is the idea of "stealing" the man from his wife. Also there is something good about having an affair with a married man in that when the girl is tired of him she can always send him home to wife. If she dumps him completely she can always threaten to tell the wife in which case most men will stop coming around. Lastly, it is just being female. Nothing makes a man more attractive to a woman than already having a girlfriend or wife. I don't know why that is, but it is.
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@GardenGerty (99323)
• United States
17 May 09
You are right, a romance like this is safe, no commitment required, and no need to expect happily ever after and then be disappointed.
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
17 May 09
I always ask that same question. Why would you want another woman's man. Once they say thay are married walk away. If more females did that then there would be less divorces and more men around for their kids.
@faisai (1140)
• Hong Kong
17 May 09
Do you mean the girl intentionally get involved in a married man? Or is it just so happened? There are times when some married man want to have affairs and thus will hide the fact that they are married when they are out in the bars. Now, some guys are more than the others and some girls just adore them. These girls may have no idea that man is married... not until when the relationship is built up so deeply that she hasn't got the courage to quit. Sooner or later, it becomes she wanna have the man divorced and forced the original wife out of the game. Of course there are times when girls just don't care about whether the man is married or not and they just want fun.
@GardenGerty (99323)
• United States
17 May 09
Forbidden fruit is the sweetest, and some people just have to have a challenge. They do not believe that if he cheats with them he will cheat on them.
• United States
16 May 09
again I respond to you, and I want to say I am very sorry you are going through this. Now some girls are just very trashy, and want what they can't have. or like to prove to themselves that they can have it. I am not sure, I have always wondered this to. Maybe she didn't know he was married? If she did she may have just been so attracted to him she didn't care. Unfortunatly some girls really don't care until it happens to them. Or others had it happen to them, and think it needs to happen to somebody else. Not sure. But again it goes back to why would a married man want somebody other than his wife? I don't ever condone cheating, but usually the fault of all three-four parties involved. If he didn't want her, then it wouldn't have mattered that she wanted him.