I guess I'm a loner, I had one best friend 20yrs. Ago

By Liz
United States
May 18, 2009 12:39am CST
I guess it's because I'm from a large family We played with each other, so we always had A full house. Now that I'm married and don't See my family as often, plus I live aways from Them I think of my only best friend all the time Her husband was in the service so they moved Around alot, then after 3 kids (that are almost Grown) we lost touch. I'm not even sure how To make a friend, but lately I'd love to have Someone to do stuff. With.
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@CJgirly (94)
• United States
4 Jun 09
I guess I'm kind of a loner too. I have social anxiety though, I'm not comfortable around many people. but i definitely miss having friends and people to share with. My family is also very small. I just lost my mom, my dad is all I have left. I have half brothers and sisters but I never get to talk to or see them. I'm expecting a little girl this september, so she will be getting all of my attention :)
@ellie333 (21029)
18 May 09
Hi Daisiejanie, I am the opposite and had very few family members but lots of friends and even though I have now moved hundreds of miles away still keep in touch. The best way to perhaps meet people in your new area though is through your daughter, the parents of her school friends and maybe search on Facebook or another site like Friends Reunited for your old friend, she is probably thinking and wondering about you from time to time too. If you have a particular hobby you enjoy join a local group for it, you new friends will also have similar interests to you. Good luck. Huggles. Ellie :D
• India
18 May 09
well thats my story too , i too face problem in making friends that are really very good. i have very less friends and only have got one best friend.but i think the most good part of people like us is that we can learn to live in any condition, and we learn many things in our life very easily. so you can use those skills of yours and change your nature a bit like i have done with my nature. Believe me it is really good felling when you have a positive attitude, more people attract towards you and you are likely to make new friends more often.