Do you think that is corect when a man divorce because his woman....

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
May 18, 2009 5:02pm CST
....Can t have a baby? Is a normal and fair decision? A man can divorce if she are to old or can t have baby?
8 responses
• United States
18 May 09
I think that is absolutely ridiculous! Is a woman able to divorce a man if it is his fault? I know that there are countries in the world where arranged marriages still happen frequently. In those cases, I can understand the frustration. I still dont think it is a good reason for divorce! I think that people everywhere take divorce because it is the easy way out. I think that many people dont want to try or put the effort into a relationship to make it work. If kids is the only thing that is important, does it matter who the parents are? There are ways to get children even if one or both of the partners has infertillity problems! I wish a divorce was much more difficult to get. I think people would try harder then and stop looking for an easy out all of the time!
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
18 May 09
belive me, divorce is not a easy way...sometimes can be just this way...
• United States
18 May 09
I think that if a man is destined to have a baby from his own sperm and the woman refuses to other means in order for him to have that child then I think he should be able to divorce her. You shouldn't be able to deny someone something that truly want in life and the thing with marriage - its actually not that big of a deal anymore. Especially when in at least the US its not that unusual for people to not want to get married.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
18 May 09
but are man who divorce, if woman don t give his a baby
@lawana_f (327)
• United States
18 May 09
Actually in the USA it is more likely that the woman is pregnant and the man does not want to raise children and will divorce her and leave her and the children. Most divorces in the USA have little to do with whether the woman can have children. It is not a reason to divorce when there are so many children to adopt in this world. If you can raise your child then you should be abe to raise a child you choose as yours too.
• United States
18 May 09
I'm not saying its a reason for the divorce rate, I'm just saying divorce isn't that crazy in the US and its natural for people not to get married. But there are some guys who want to carry on their "line" and I fully understand why and if they don't want to adopt then fine they don't adopt but the woman should be like ok use a surgerant mother etc. and if she says no then divorce. Marriage isn't all about love - its usch a small thing to do with it. The biggest part if finding someone that you are compatible with in all aspects of life meaning family, finances, goals, etc.
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
19 May 09
Hello icesmile, I would think before marriage it would have been discussed between the two people involved. It is not always the womans fault she can't have a baby, it could be a problem with the man.So I think it could go both ways if she wants a baby and her husband can't give one to her so should she go outside of the marriage to find someone else to give her a child? It could be a sticky situation if this is not discussed before marriage. Original question, I say not it is not fair or correct to divorce because one either can't have a child or wants a child and the other partner doesnt.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
can be more important to want a baby or to want to be with woman who you choice?
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
19 May 09
Yeah, my ex-husband couldn't give me a baby but I didn't divorce him because of it or was it waan't the reason we split up.
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
19 May 09
i don't think the man really loves the woman if he choosed to divorce.true love won't change because of baby reason.so if the man doesn't love woman again,he will have many reasons to leave her someday.if so,is it still worth to being sad?
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
if love don t exist, nothing exist
@anniefannie (1743)
• United States
19 May 09
some men are nuts. no i don't believe that is a reason for a divorce.he don't love her.and if she is to old he should have know that before he married her.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
good answer
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
18 May 09
Well if she is too old to have a baby he new that before he married her. If married and then you find out you can't have a baby that would be so cruel and heartless for a man to divorce her over that. She is already probably devastated over not being able to have babies and then he is going to walk away from her. That will bring bad Karma to the man and I bet he will never have a child in his lifetime. Remember Karma will always get you in the end!
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
18 May 09
I like this idea...i am christian, but i think that will receive what they deserve
@dodo19 (26680)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 May 09
I think that it's ridiculous to divorce a woman, if she is too old or can't have a child. I think that it's a really stupid reason for divorce. There are a lot of better reasons for divorce! To me, this is just doesn't make sense. In my opinion, this is really a lousy reason to divorce your wife.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
18 May 09
is ridiculous, but are cases when a man want strongly a baby
@arkasen (748)
• India
19 May 09
I don't think this is right to divorce an woman because she can not have baby. There is nothing the woman could do. Its not her fault. I think the man should understand her problem and try to give her support in this situation instead of divorcing her. because to an woman it is also not very easy to digest thing that she can not be a mother. In this situation the woman needs a lot of support and that support can only be given by her husband.