How you feel when people don t comment on your answers? sad? is frustrating?

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
May 19, 2009 2:14am CST
If you answer in a discussion, and who start that discussion, will comment to other mylotters and in your answer he don t comment, you will be sad or angry? will you think that your answer don t was good or maybe just who start the topic are not interest in you? next time you will answer to this person again?
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@xarex777 (468)
• Philippines
19 May 09
it will be frustrated because when you start discussions, make sure you're always reading what others comments with your topic.. and make some comments at least they know that you started a discussion that really interests you.. starting a nonsense topic will result to nonsense comments so you will be bored posting comments...
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
you right, but if i answer to your topic...and you will comment just in others answers and in mine not..i will be somehow disapointed
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@xarex777 (468)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi.. I really appreciate that you've chosen my comment as a best response
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
1 Jun 09
You "deserve" it...
• Indonesia
19 May 09
It's okay for me, maybe my answer is not good or useful enough for someone who post the topic. Sure, I will respond her/his topic again when I know and have an opinion about the topic. At least my poin will increase by aswering the topic :)
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
yes...but is little frustraiting...right? you are not invisible there...you need some attention too, at least you answer in him topic...is something
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@Morpher (76)
• Indonesia
19 May 09
Yes I sad but not angry, maybe my discussion is not good so no people interested. I must create good discussion later and hope other people will respond^^
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
of course, we will try again and again until we will find the right topic and right answers
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@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
19 May 09
I used to feel sad when I started a discussion and no one response or response to discussions and got no comment from the one who started the discussion but not anymore. I will answer to this same person again even if this person is not answering because sometime I do not comment to those who response to my discussion as I don't really know how to reply.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
i ask about your answers to your question...if they don t comment to your answer as i make now...will be frustraiting for you?and if i make comments in other answers and in your not...you like?
@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
19 May 09
I will still comments to that person if he or she don't reply to my comments. I will not get frustrated just because of that.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
i ll belive you..i am just a little sad...
@chookie1971 (2277)
• Australia
19 May 09
It doesn't really worry to much if people don't comment on my responses. I don't find it sad or frustrating. But I do find it is really nice for the comments. It is even better when the discussion keeps going back and forth on the same topic. For me, if you don't comment on this response. I won't get upset or frustrated. If you start another one, you never know, I could respond to your next discussion.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
You right, but if he answer to others, and in your answer he don t comment you are not just a little sad?
• Australia
19 May 09
It still wouldn't worry me.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
19 May 09
Hi, You just asked the question which I was feeling for quite some time here in mylot. And honestly I thought to post the same question. I am so happy that you already did. Now to answer your question, I have observed it many a times that the person who starts a discussion don't answer to the replies of his post. And worse he sometimes prefers to answer some of them and ignoring your reply completly making you look as a fool. I think it is ridiculous. If you don't have the time to acknowledge one's response to your post then you shouldn't start a discussion in the first place. I think it is rude from the part of these users who don't "comment" on your answers. Yes it is a bit saddning.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
YOU GOT THE POINT...this is frustraiting...yestarday i amswer somebody topic, and he comment to few friends, and in to my answer not...i was sad...maybe my answer don t was good? next time i will choice to answer others topics...
• Philippines
19 May 09
It will be frustrating but you can push people to respond to the discussions that they are not interested. As much as possible I want a lot of people to respond to my discussions but as of now, I'm still not successful in doing it. lol I'm still open to suggestions and improvement. I hope that time will come, I can find my discussions in today's top discussion tab.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
no....maybe my question don t was good...i ask about comments, to your answers...as i make now...i comment on your answer...if i ll comment just in few answers and i don t comment in your answer..you will feel good?
@sjvenden27 (1850)
• United States
19 May 09
If the person doesnt respond to my post thats ok.. sometimes it can be frustrating, because I was really into that specific discussion.. There is a couple ways to look at it.. One your comment was so complete that there was nothing else to be said. Or you happen to off the subject and that person doesnt want to respond, due to a subject change within the discussion. And the last thing could be simply the person didnt get a chance to really respond to your comment.. When you are writing and you are reading a lot of responses, there are some that make you want to write a lot and there are somethat well you dont know what to say.. writers blot.. I would answer that person's discussion again, if the speific topic caught my eye... even if the orginal writer doesnt want to comment on your posts, doesnt mean others wont...
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
you right. i talk about comments...to your answers
@mysdianait (64063)
• Italy
19 May 09
Ice I know what you are saying here - and I also see your sad face too Don't let it upset you please because it happens many times. I think it has something to do with respect. If someone takes the time and effort to respond on one of my dicussions then I comment back, to every single one who responds no matter what they say. Next time it happens then take a look at some of the coments that were giiven to the others and if it was just a 'thanks' or 'I agree' then it's best you didn't get one because that is not a comment with much thought most times. Don't worry, just keep on responding the same as always and remember it will always happen on here, every single day but we must not let it get us down
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
you know...this is my problem, i am here not just for few cents, and i try s much as i can to answer or comments...maybe you right, people are not all same...i will smile a little now...
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@mysdianait (64063)
• Italy
19 May 09
A smile suits you much better
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
our smiles will make this day better
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• India
19 May 09
no,It would not affect me in anyway,but if i start a discussion & do not get responses then i feel sad,because in most of the discussions i started i seek an advice or information.so it make me feel bad if i don't get the same.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
my God, peoples don t understand my point...COMMENTS, NOT ANSWERS.
• India
19 May 09
if people give comments like you then i would feel good to have no comments.so rude.:P
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
you want to say that i am rude? i am not, i am a polite and nice person, just i ask if you like when peoples comment on your answers....is this rude? is nice, belive me
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
20 May 09
Hi icesmile, I have come across such situation a few times. I don’t understand why the creators of the discussions don’t have any interest in my responses. I wonder may be my points giving are not hitting the right nails. Or might be he dislikes my ideas. Or might be I’m not one of the friends in his friends list. I just hope most probably he leaves out mine unconsciously. To find out the true reason why the creator would skip over my response, I tried to post responses to their new discussions respectively later on. I was glad to find that all of them had left respective comments in my responses. Happy posting
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
hi, yes, i was in same situation, and you understand very well my question...is frustrating, right?i ask myself...why? i am guilt?i am not in his friend list?my English is so bad?this was my problem
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@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
20 May 09
I feel really happy that you are more than willing to add comment in my response. Thank you icesmile! Actually you are a very nice person and could express your feeling using the language fluently so I don’t think your response was left out totally because of all the said reasons. As we know many of us make use of our free time writing posts here, and sometimes we even could hardly find any extra time to go back to the old discussions. Anyway this matter do give you a good thread to start this good topic
@sirnose (2440)
• United States
19 May 09
Sometimes it's frustrating when your posts or discussions don't get the responses that they deserve,but, what is you to do...i really hate it when one of my well thought out discussions get nada, zero responses especially when i need an answer to my question that i posed.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
i ask about comments on responses
@sirnose (2440)
• United States
19 May 09
Oh please:discussions,posts whats the different its all the same i thought that i was responsing to your discussion...and you say that you is how do you think i feel about your response to my "Comment" ...i mean like i'm totally and .
• India
19 May 09
doesn't bother me
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
19 May 09
it s ok for you if don t matter, but you will see when you will start more discussions how nice is to when somebody say in few words that your answer count
• India
19 May 09
may be ! but I think I am attached to my lot because of the answers that we get.I enjoy my lot thats why I do it, but you may be correct at a later point.
• Philippines
20 May 09
Yes, I will feel frustrated, I will feel I am not welcome. But I really understand because there are many response that don't need a comment, it is just it is. But if in my response, I was sincerely contributed some of personal experience and I did not receive any response of course I will be sad. But that's ok, I am too is doing that to my other discussion but not that because I don't want to put on comments but I because I have a poor time management whenever I logged in here in Mylot.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
hi, i am agree with you that people don t have to much time, i don t comment all time, but when i comment, i comment for all...
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
20 May 09
a little frustrate feeling i felt.but i would like to understand that because not all people have time to answer again and aggain for the same topic.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
of course that you right, but if i will answer one, i must answer all...or if i can t, and don t have time..i don t comment, is simple, i don t want ofence somebody...
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@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
20 May 09
Ive mostly seen that really goooood discussions, worth reading go unread and unanswered. This has happened to me at times, and believe me, the discussions are mind boggling and sets you thinking. But no replies ! That set me thinking. Ive realised that mylotters here are not out to read good stuff, just enjoy and answer simple questions like which soap do you use.! By the dozens ! So, now I do not pen down any intellectual discussions anymore. Its just read, answer and forget. It used to make me feel sad, but now Ive learnt my lesson. Moral of this discussion : Do not write intellectual discussions on mylot. lol.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
hi...i ask about comments, i know what you mean, but this is other problem..what mylot members like to answer...i try everything too, i ask about comments
• United States
20 May 09
Oh no. I just put it out there. If they like it or not I don't care. At least my opinion is there for the record.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
i respect your opinion...
@lynnemg (4539)
• United States
20 May 09
It doesn't bother me at all. Sometimes, a reply is not even necessary, or it may just be that the discussion starter hasn't gotten to it yet, or has overlooked it all together. I don't take it personally at all. I know that there are many times when I have overlooked things or had to log off for one reason or another. It isn't anything personal, it is just that I am a busy person and don't always remember to go back to things that I intend to.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
you very right, you got the point, but if you see that to others he give commentand ignore you?
• United States
20 May 09
I feel very bad about it. I am like what did I do. I havent done this in a while but I was SO proud when my discussions won me spots on the top ones on the site under discussions. I recall I would copy and keep that thing in a word document to proove I did something good. Its silly but I used to do it when it happened. So of course I hate it. But I might not do it once if it doesnt interest me what would I say? I dont always comment but when I see something I can make a good reply to I reply of course I do. Why not?
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
yes, sometimes don t have any comment, you right
• Philippines
20 May 09
Sometimes it disappointing when nobody comments in my discussion. But then it help me to think of a new discussion that will caught their attentions. and i dont take it agains them because we are all free to answer any one and to not answer to anyone.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
20 May 09
of course you right...