How would break up with a guy whom u love the most.

India
May 26, 2009 11:00pm CST
I love my guy a lot even he loves me a lot. However because of his family he wants a break up. When i tell him that i'll get married to somebody else he gets upset. At the same time he can't marry me. He is trying his best to avoid me. I'm trying hard to forget him but it is becoming hard day by day. Can somebody suggest how can v help eachother getting this resolved.
4 responses
@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
27 May 09
hello there! you don't have to let other people run your life..if you love the man then be with him regardless of what others say. But if you find unhappiness with this man then you have to let go of him, the most important thing is that it's your decision to hold on to him or to let go and not everyone else's. Good luck and enjoy life.
• India
27 May 09
Thank u so much for responding.I know him for the last 5 years now. He is my best friend, after all this v can't be friends anymore. i'm trying my best to break up with him but its getting worse day by day. he is not able to understand that. Just thinkking about his parents and stuff....
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Hi new2345, I think your relationship is a hopeless case. One thing his parents doesn't like you, and if ever you rather get married with someone else and that makes him upset. Now he doesn't want to talk to you and his avoiding you. So you can't even compromise or stand each other in this case. What I just can advice is let time tell. Space and time first for both of you. Maybe by that time you both have mellowed down and can talk sensible. So he could resolve also his problems with his parents too. It's up to you if when do you like to seat and discuss the issues if you can still save the relationship. But what is there to expect right now. Still I think you have time to think and all the options with your problems first before discussing it to him. Have a nice day to you!
• United States
27 May 09
Well first I would not let his family get involved in your lives. It is your choices to be together. I also think (sorry if this sounds mean, I don't mean to be) if he loves you like you love him then he would be with you and not let his family run his life as if he were a small child. I think you are a very sweet and big-hearted person and you should move on to a man that will love you for you and not be afraid of what his family thinks and be so proud he has you on his arm and he would want to show you off to the world. I know it is hard but you deserve better and in time your heart will heal and you will no longer hurt, but you will have come away from this issue with wisdom adn a better person.
@smileonstar (4014)
• United States
27 May 09
wow, very complicate... I hate to marry someone that I dont love, do you? if it is so hard for you then you should call off the wedding... Or this is an a range married for you? if so then it is really hard to get away. which way do you want to do? get back to your boyfriend? well, if you want to do that then you have to solve problem that his family have now... make sure they dont feel any negative about you. Good luck