who are the villains in your life?

@ckyera (17223)
Philippines
May 27, 2009 3:08am CST
when watching a movie, there's always a villain! as if a movie is not complete without them, but of course they give thrill to the movie. but anyway that's not the topic, i want to know is the villains in REAL life! these villains could be our husband/wife, our in laws, friends, neighbors, boss... who else? in my life, mmmm, i can't think of anybody right now...oh but maybe they are the people who keeps on back fighting me... how about you? are there villains in your life? thanks and happy posting! :-)
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@Beertjie (978)
• South Africa
27 May 09
I get along with most people, if I don't get along, then they just become history, just another person whose name I know.So as far as for people, there are no villains in my life. There is however, one evil that won't let go, always trying to get me to do things that I know is wrong... the devil himself. He is the villain of all villains. He is the driving force behind all villains, and all villaisn to be. He is the driving force behind everything that is bad. He is a real pain in the soul... May you never have anyone become a villain in your life, so you may have peace... Blessings
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@ckyera (17223)
• Philippines
27 May 09
hello, thanks..you're right, the devil himself is the villains of all villains. but let's face it, we're humans and we are prone for this things, to feel that somebody is a villain with our lives, but i guess at least for a short period of time. and the good thing is, we are taught how to face these villains and get rid of them and the best we can do is to forgive. and with that we can be stronger and better person and will learn to hold tighter to what God can do in our lives to be a better person. and admit it, sometimes the villains lies within ourselves. have a nice day! :-)
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@Beertjie (978)
• South Africa
27 May 09
You have said it very well - forgive. That is the only way to get the villain out. And also to forgive ourself for being the villain. I thank God for His forgiveness and ask Him to help me always to forgive others and myself. Have a blessed day.
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• Philippines
27 May 09
Yes, there is a villain in my, and my other siblings, life. It is our brother. He's like a demon, a curse. My parents are even mad at him. I can't tell you why because I don't wanna think about him. Thinking of him makes my good mood turns to bad.
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@ckyera (17223)
• Philippines
27 May 09
oh..ok. so he's the black ship? huh! i wish your brother will change for the better and so that there will be peace in your home. and i hope he will ask for forgiveness for whatever he do that makes all of you hates him, and for all of you to forgive him. anyway he's still a family member. but i don't know the reasons behind so i'll respect you... thanks & have a nice day! don't think of him so that your mood will not be bad! cheers! :-)
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• Malaysia
27 May 09
For me it's myself that I can say the villain in my life. Because it was me who keeps holding back whenever I got the opportunity to move forward in my career, study and even relationships. I don't consider myself as an honest person. I can easily tell lies to people around me. Sometimes I feel like I have two personalities. The good and the bad. As much as I want to be a good person, the bad person inside me tries to fight back.lol. Well, it's not a good thing of course, I always try to improve myself.
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@ckyera (17223)
• Philippines
27 May 09
hello...i think you're not the only one who feels that way... most of us has two side. the good and the bad, because we are humans. but we must learn to control ourselves and don't let the bad side empower the good side. i think prayers can make a difference... so let's not stop changing ourselves for the better and put our trust in the Lord! have a nice day! :-)
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@mobhomeir (7567)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Nice discussion...yes..there are so many villains in our lives it would just be normal because we are created with not the same vibrations and thoughts in our lives. That would not be a matter because most often than not they are not with us everyday. For me what matters me most is the villain that stayed in myself ever since. There are so many would be a good things that maybe could happen already in my life if not for this villain that stayed in me I might be more better person than what I am today...the greatest villain in my life are my bad attitude that sometimes I could not control....I hope I could control this villain...thanks...happy myloting
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@ckyera (17223)
• Philippines
27 May 09
yes, i agree, the greatest villain in our lives is the other side of us also... the alter-ego, and if we can get rid of them, we will be a better person, but also because of them we became much better. so see, we can't get rid of them coz they are also the one who makes us stronger, just don't let them defeat the good side of our life. i think sometimes my husband think that i am the villain in his life! bwahahahahaha..... joke only! he's my hero! huh!
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• Malta
27 May 09
The villains in my life were those who tried to ruin my family peace and my family itself! Whoever tries to do that is considered a terrible villain ... but thankfully there are many heroes too! I am surprised how many bad people there can be around, but I have met so many nice people too, that they thought me people who try to harm me with strength and thus I learned to face people and choose from good and bad "friends".
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• United States
27 May 09
for me it would have to be my evil step mother hands down there is no contest, she is manipulative, con woman. all around bad person i have 2 brothers and 1 sister and we all feel the same way. she use to be in my life not any more.
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@wolfie34 (26893)
• United Kingdom
27 May 09
I currently have two villains in my life, one being my ex who even after two years still manages to haunt me and someone I stupidly went with at a holiday resort I go to, both totally messed with my head and in my eyes are total villains they are totally toxic and I deeply regret having got involved with both of them. Fortunately I haven't seen my ex since I left in 2007 but they are there in the background, I get the occasional email but I have taught myself to accept that they won't leave me alone, the accidental fling I have to put it down to experience and when I go to the holiday resort in August I hope that they won't be too nasty or bitter towards me because I want to be able to enjoy my holiday. I would love a superhero to come down and get rid of the villains for me so my life can be much smoother and simple, I guess we have a superhero in us all but it's finding him/her thats the difficulty!
@bbsr13 (4199)
• India
27 May 09
HelloYera! In my private life I don't have any villain but my office I had some friends who always back stabbed me.Because of them I think I have lost about a lakh rupees.thanx.
@TLChimes (4845)
• United States
27 May 09
"Shadow" an ex friend who still follows me in one form or another and pokes into my life....
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@shibham (17025)
• India
5 Nov 09
honestly ckyera me. yes i am the main villain of my life bcoz no one can harm a person as he does himself/herslelf. simple answer. we are the hidden villains of ourselves. have a nice day. keep mylotting.
@ckyera (17223)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
thanks shibham for your nice straight to the point answer! and i agree...
@Rakshas (223)
• India
28 May 09
Yes, i had faced many villains in my life they are my relatives, my friends, my neighbors.Why they are villains because they like to interfere in my life every time and say everything they watch about me to my parents and my parents than scold me..I find most of the people villains in my life.Because i find no one loves me except my family.
• Abbotsford, Wisconsin
27 May 09
My Mother and Manipulative sisters.. I was adopted and grew up in a foster home.. I have had my fair share of evil siblings adopted and foster... and my adopted Mother .. She is evil but I still love her.. And my Evil sisters.. Every time I am happier than they are they will manipulative or do what they can to drag me down in the hole, and I am tired of it.. the latest hole is the broken promise over my grandpas old house and lies about helping transport me to and from a possible job, lies to people who have called looking for me etc. Anyhow.. For me my Family has been the worse Evil compared to all the evil people I went against, and I have went against some pretty bad people in live... - DNatureofDTrain