Do you still think about your frist love?
By usaflove08
@usaflove08 (281)
United States
May 27, 2009 11:43pm CST
Mylotters !
Are you the type of person who can't get over a past boyfriend/ girlfriend? Do you still love your "first love" until now that even though you're married, you can't stop thinking about him/her? Do you feel that it's wrong, but you just can't help what you feel? Do you sometimes wish you could still call that person and be friends? Do share us your situation = ).
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5 responses
@genevakat17 (117)
• United States
28 May 09
I used to think about him a bit, off and on, but then it just stopped, I rarely think about him, and when his name pops into my head im just like hmm hope he is well... Maybe i didnt love him like I thought I did! Honestly, I dont think about any of my exs, lol prolly why they are my exs. But I know a lot of ppl that think about their exes, its totally okay!
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@usaflove08 (281)
• United States
28 May 09
What up!
Hahha, I understand that your exes are now in part of your past that's why you don't think about them anymore. I do totally think the same as you, that it's alright for others to think about people from their past, especially their first loved one. Sometimes, when I'm depressed I think about my ex lovers, but when I'm happy I don't - and so that's how I know that I don't or never really loved them as much as I love my husband now. I have learned from them though =) .
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
28 May 09
After seeing your post, I remember her again. Everyday and night I always think of her even if she turn down my feelings on her i cant help myself to forgot her. I feel bad for myself i didnt fight for that love I'm craving for her but that's how my life goes. After she turn me down i seek to it to forgot what memories i make to her. I get a gf to forget her but still it no avail. Right now im single again and dont think much to have a gf for now, but i cant help myself to think of her, even on my dreams I cant take her off my mind. Please stop this obstacles of mine.
@usaflove08 (281)
• United States
28 May 09
Hi!
Wow, I think what you said was real deep and it sorta got to me a little bit, hahaha. I don't understand why a girl would turn down a person as sweet as you sound. But you've probably heard of 'things happen for a reason' so you go right on ahead and find 'that reason'. It might not happen now, but you'll figure out later on. Also, you must really do love her because you let her go. If she comes back, then you'll know. I'm starting to sound a bit corny now , but it was nice hearing your reply. Thank you! Good luck with your love life , hehe .
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
i no longer think of my first love but i always think of my ex. he's my third boyfriend and i can't still get over him. i dumped him because he not showing any effort in our relationship and i thought that one day he would mature. unfortunately, he and his recent girlfriend had a baby. 2 years have passed and i'm still the same poor girl who ended up being regretful of dumping him many years ago.
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
Hello usaflove08.
After 3 years, I don't think about my first love anymore. For me, he is no more than an ordinary friend. I have found another love which is greater than the love that I have ever experienced before. So it is pretty easy to move on.
For me, it is not worth it to think about the past, like my first love because I want to live my life without any regret and be happy. That's all.
Have a nice day!
After 3 years, I don't think about my first love anymore. For me, he is no more than an ordinary friend. I have found another love which is greater than the love that I have ever experienced before. So it is pretty easy to move on.
For me, it is not worth it to think about the past, like my first love because I want to live my life without any regret and be happy. That's all.
Have a nice day!