How do you show your love to your spouse?

@AB_Singh (132)
Nepal
May 28, 2009 2:03am CST
I am unmarried single guy. Wanna prepare for future life. so want to have an idea from elders, experienced and view by people over here. How do you share and show your Love for spouse? What is the best, and effective way or idea do you think to share and show love to spouse? Hope that I may get responce and answer in it, that may be helpful for my future life and some ideas to readers too. AB_Singh
5 responses
@KDav86 (11)
• United States
29 May 09
Regardless of any material thing, the most important thing you can do to show your love is to listen to your partner, consider them in all that you do, meet them half way. It makes me feel appreciated and loved when my husband respects my feelings and gives a little if/when we disagree on something, just be a good friend, and show a little extra care, cook once in a while, (talk about the future with your partner in it). It makes it easier when you are in a compatible relationship when most things you do is showing that you care for them, naturally.
@AB_Singh (132)
• Nepal
29 May 09
Yeah, I like your ideas. Just the arguement starts from disagreement and for not listening to each others. If we appreciate feelings from eachother, ofcourse we could live happily shring love. Thanks for your ideas. Want to know is it your own experience or you do learn it from somewhere? AB_Singh
@KDav86 (11)
• United States
30 May 09
these are my experiences. I have been in a relationship for a few years with my husband of almost a year. I know it's not that long but I know it's working well because we listen and have high regards for eachother. it definetly helps.
• Philippines
28 May 09
There are many ways to show love for your partner. Always be there for her in happy and bad times, cheer her up when she's down, help her get through when she has problems and support all her endeavors. Of course, it also helps to say "I love you" every time you get a chance. Even the simplest gesture, like a good morning hug, will tell her that you love her.
@AB_Singh (132)
• Nepal
28 May 09
Ahh. Here is another 100% solid idea I found. All the way no doubts and disputs. You make me happy, because I think now I can be ready to face those days very easily. I hope following your ideas won't let any misunderstandings in our life. I am very much interested to know if you have this experience in your own real life. Let me know how you have this idea? I am really greatful for this. AB_Singh
• Philippines
29 May 09
yes, all i said is based on experience. I'm married for about 10 months now and these are just some of the things I do to tell him how much I love him. I support him in everything he does, from his hobbies to his work to competitions he joins in. And we really take time to say the words "I love you" even in the most unlikely times, when we're just walking or probably taking a break from doing the chores. We don't start and end our day without doing these simple gestures.
@samar12 (991)
• India
29 May 09
Well I think you don't need to prepare for it because if you really love someone it just comes naturally, preparing for it would be a bit unnatural.Well I can tell you what special things you can do for your lady love. Appreciate here beauty when she is in worst condition, enjoy some quality good time with her, keep telling her how special she is for you and etc..it never lasts, It will come naturally to you when you are in love.
@AB_Singh (132)
• Nepal
29 May 09
Really I was not caring for this. The preparation shows artificiality. Love comes from innner core of heart. I appreaciate you. But as I am unknown for the activities in terms of showing love, so I was queryin if some one has experienced ideas and some of our activities could help to show our intimate love for someone remarking the special. thanks for you idea. AB_Singh
@kena1979 (49)
• United States
28 May 09
well the best way is to think of your spouse as your best friend. Help them out anyway you can, be there everyday incase they need you. Gifts help but not really necessary all the time. The main thing is to reassure them everyday that you are there for them and only them.
@AB_Singh (132)
• Nepal
28 May 09
Wow, super and easy ideas. yeah, I think your idea may work effectively. I am happy with your this suggestions. I may try it in my real life. But only the matter is not so easy to become available only for her everytime. Coz there are some other parts of life and duties also. By the way, shall I ask whether if it is your own life experience or from study or views only? AB_Singh
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
28 May 09
If you love someone it should all come natural to you. Being there for her, helping her out with the household chores. Being thoughful and kind and just a good person. When she is in a bind help her to resolve the problem. This is a two way street so it works both ways. If you are both on the same page it will for the most part a happy marriage. Don't get me wrong all marriages have there ups and downs but if you both are committed to each other good or bad it will be great. Remember you both have to want the same things. Good luck to you!
@AB_Singh (132)
• Nepal
28 May 09
Really if we both are in same page then we could understand each other's feeling wand gestures what we are about. yeah , Got it. Thanks for your ideas. How to find out, whether if we are in same page or not? AB_Singh