**Am I attractive???***

@jezabel (283)
Canada
November 12, 2006 1:54am CST
Why do women ask this question on here but never any men?
20 responses
@canadabis1 (1955)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
I dunno...probably us guys would seem full fo ourselves if we did.
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
and for women who ask?
• Canada
12 Nov 06
u mean if u asked if I thought i was hot?
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
if you came on the site and asked everyone if they thought you were hot, u think they would think differently about you then if a girl did it?
• India
12 Nov 06
men always confident with his attraction.but women will always make confirmation by asking this to all
@blakky (137)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
totally agree. men always seem to ahve so much more confidence in themselves, and often even an inflated opinion of their own attractiveness. but hey, it's great to have a positive self image
• India
22 Mar 10
I agree.. women doubt whether they are attractive while men are mostly confident. And yes sometimes overconfident. :P So that's why women feel the need to hear from someone they look attractive. I guess its also because men are quicker to tell other people they don't look good rather than women and maybe they are also more immune to criticism than women. just my opinion. I'd like to know whether or not its true. :P
• India
22 Mar 10
I agree.. women doubt whether they are attractive while men are mostly confident. And yes sometimes overconfident. :P So that's why women feel the need to hear from someone they look attractive. I guess its also because men are quicker to tell other people they don't look good rather than women and maybe they are also more immune to criticism than women. just my opinion. I'd like to know whether or not its true. :P
@denzelino (270)
• Germany
18 Nov 06
i don´t know why just women aks this question? but i think you are atractive. what do you think about me? i think i´m not bad ^^
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
18 Nov 06
ur a total hottie! Your picture reminds me of lukas who won the last Rock Star!
@moneymind (10521)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
yeah that is if it is his real photo.... greetings. : )
@caraj444 (1080)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
i think women have a lot more media pressure to look a certain way which means women tend to be more insecure than men, Its sad that so many women seem to think thats the most important thing they can ask about im sure all of these women have more important issues goin on in their lives but they seem to need the validation of strangers to make them feel better about themselves. Everbody should know that the important tool they have to suceed and be happy in life is their brain not there face or body or hair, and if someone judges me on my looks alone thats not somebody i would consider important to my life anyways. mayby if we all stop responding to these questions people will stop asking them
@caraj444 (1080)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
oh and + for starting this good discussion
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
thks..and excellent response! I totally agree and will sign the petition!
@achilles7 (1277)
• India
18 Nov 06
you are lovely and cute. I think the photography you have given is taken when you are at teenage. Do you look as it is now?
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
18 Nov 06
THANK YOU!! This was taken 6 months ago..just after my 30th birthday...you rock!
• India
12 Nov 06
i guess, coz they want to maybe feel secure....
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
16 Nov 06
why are women more insecure?
• India
12 Nov 06
well well as for women i don't kno ...maybe they spend so much time putting on their makeup they feel bad if it doesn't pay off........maybe they give too much impotance to how they look...... as for men...well i dont think we care much about how we look....come on there so much more to us than looking good we would rather have our other qualities impress u....rather than our looks...
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
shouldn't it be the same for women?
• India
12 Nov 06
I dont know why men are not asking this question, but you look very attractive..
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
thks!
• India
12 Nov 06
U just send me ur real pix 4 analysing. I will then tell u about ur pretiness.
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
this is my actual picture..however, i am wondering why women ask this question..validation from men?
@bishu_sinha (1459)
• India
12 Nov 06
No doubt.
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
thks for your response
@Gyan_guru (364)
• India
12 Nov 06
You really look lovely and cute...
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
thank you
• Hong Kong
12 Nov 06
I'm a woman but I never asked this kind of question because i don't wanna hear something I don;t like.back to your question,I think this ask because they're fishing for compliment.
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
agreed!
• Australia
12 Nov 06
maybe u tell me ;) i think that women on this sit r tryng to pick up. what do u think.
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
do you think that's what it is?
@swetashah (345)
• United States
31 Mar 10
I guess women are the beauty - conscious type of human beings, and they constantly look at the mirror to see whether they are pretty enough at the moment. For men, they are different species, and they have something else obsess with.
@moneymind (10521)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
my guess is that men here knows that they are attractive and do not need to go spreading it out like some women here. greetings. : )
@magnet (2087)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Because some women like to seek approval of others, they like to hear opinions. Ladys it really doesn't matter what other people think, it's what you think about yourself.
@keith91 (203)
• United States
18 Nov 06
dont know
@Brianus77 (912)
• Czech Republic
18 Nov 06
yes, you're attractive
• United States
12 Nov 06
Because, women are more insecure about their appearance and bodies than men are. That and almost all women just like to hear that they are attractive. We like the attention lol.
@sann007m2 (717)
• India
12 Nov 06
Stand In front of a mirror and then ask it to your emage...!!YOu (the girls) r always care about how you looking are....is it right...have any doubt plz check mirror....