What is one Love advice that works for you?

@n30wing (4768)
Philippines
May 30, 2009 4:50am CST
What love advice that works for me is communication, I think it's the most important part of relationship. With out it,I don't think it would work. Respect each other individuality so that you don't lose interest with each other. How about you guys what love advice that works for you? Have a nice day to all of you!
5 responses
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
"when you love someone at least leave something for yourself." And they are right because I got out of my last relationship with dignity because of this love advice. Godspeed...
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
Hi my friend Llonora, you know what i really agreed with what you've said. Always leave something to your self. One thing more you can never love anyone unless you love your self first. Anyway you take care. It's been a long time no hear from you. Anyway have a nice day! God bless!
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
Thanks, bro!
@larish (2195)
• Philippines
30 May 09
"Always put God at the center of your relationship" and "For every solutions, there's a solution". These are the two advise that I always keep in mind if things are not going smoothly in my relationship. These also makes my relationship works.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi larish, that was a very good love advice. If there is a problem there is always a solution, That both of you the center of your relationship is God. You know what is bad and what is good to work out things together. Wont you add compromise hahaha! Anyway larish have a nice day to you!
@HelScream (2823)
• Philippines
30 May 09
same here my friend communication really takes a great part in having a relationship work. it goes with understanding ,listening and if you have no communication gap with your partner there will be trust and many things will follow. Sometimes in a relationship they may say that they talk a lot but still argue on small things but what they tend to forget is in communication part of it is listening if one talk the other must listen and vice versa in this way both you would understand each others views.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi HelScream, I think that is the best love advice I usually hear. Communication. And compromises. Well there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. But it's important your honest with what you feel always. Being you and being her, that your both comfortable being together. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• United States
30 May 09
I completely agree with you this is the most important part of a relationship to me as well. I didn't feel this way before I met my ex, but he convinced me of it otherwise. He always said it, and made me believe it in the end. I think because of our good communication, although the break-up, of course hurt, and was hard on me, more so than him, it wasn't a bitter, drawn out ordeal. It was adult like so to speak, and handled very mature on both parts, I give credit to our excellent communication skills. And because of the way we've always been able to communicate I think it's reason why of all his ex's I am the only on he is still friends with today. However on the flip side, before he convinced me of the importance of communication, I believed honesty was the most important part of a relationship to me. I hate, hate, HATE, being lied to, and I actually mean it when I say it. It's like a pet peeve of mine. And honesty equals respect to me. Respect for yourself to be true to yourself, and respect to others, to respect them enough to tell them the truth. Very important to me.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi mocha_momo, I like that being real and honest to yourself, being open and discuss it. Like having a cup of coffee seating on a table, and staring at each other. I hate when the person can express what she feels, and not being herself to me. I want her to open up, always, then keeping a secret. Respect and trust is important too that I agree. Anyway have a nice day to you my friend!
• New Zealand
30 May 09
listening. A relationship like you said is based on communication. Active listening and responding is main part of keeping a healthy relationship. Of course you need the romantic part of your life like a nice picnic under a star light night with your partner. But none of this can be unless you have a good connection with your partner.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
Hi Thebraggingman, I think your right, it's usually communication. When you can open up anything with her, same with her. Romance yes especially it really adds, time just time for both each other, sometimes it's to tiring when you just stay up in your room. The ambiance helps a lot. Anyway have a nice day to you!