do you still want your ex to be your friend???

Philippines
June 2, 2009 2:37am CST
I'm Chatting with her right now and we are in really good terms. It's been 5 years since we retired as lovers. I feel great because most of my Exes are my Friends still because i still want them to be and they also like me to be their friend. It is such a good feeling because we can still share feelings as friends and help each others lives. How about you????? ;-)
5 responses
• India
3 Jun 09
yes i am on good terms with my ex although sometimes flashes of the past do come by to bother me but who cares.. she is one of my best friends now and i do cherish her being in my life even after we broke up!
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
I think it all depends on how you broke up. My ex wants to be friends with me again after 5 years but the break-up for me was indeed painful because I was expecting he was the first and last.. I can't say that I totally moved on in years but I'm doing my best not to live in the past. Things have changed between us now and I would be hurt again if I become friends with him again knowing that he already has a girlfriend.
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
Im not sure I can be friends with my exes. It's not that Im not in good terms or what, I just think it's better that way, besides my world is kind of different with them. Everyhing changes.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
Hi Jayson, I just can't be friends with all of my exe's. Well for different reasons I guess! Still I could say if you can't join them, avoid them hahaha! Just kidding! I just believe in case to case basis. But at this time, I rather not, I just don't want to complicate life for me. Anyway I can call you a lucky guy! Anyway we can't tell! Have a nice day to you!
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
Well that's not a bad idea for me but i don't think my ex would approve for that. It's quite difficult for couples who broke up on a bad note. Some would prefer to stay estranged for the rest of their life. Well i do have some ex who are still my friends but we're just civil. We're not even something you can call close friends because we don't look like it anymore. We were never the same after the break up.