Who recovers from a break up, boy or a girl?

@hireshd (492)
India
June 7, 2009 2:06am CST
I wonder after a break up who recovers sooner from a broken heart?
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@srganesh (6349)
• India
7 Jun 09
It is not boys or girls.Just the one who is responsible for the break can easily change the mind.The poor victim,either is a boy or girl will definitely suffer and needs more time to recover than the other.The intensity of the love plays a vital role in the scene.Cheers!
@hireshd (492)
• India
8 Jun 09
Thanks for the response, but what if no one is ready to break up but still the part there ways may be because of the parents...in this case whom do you think is able to recover fast? Boy or Girl?
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@srganesh (6349)
• India
8 Jun 09
Then the value they had for their love determines the speed of recovery.Say,if they chose their partner to be unique,they will suffer a lot.If they had chosen as just better to live with,they come out easily.Just the intensity,I repeat,plays here.Cheers!
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
i think the person who suggest the break up will recover soon most probably, most of the boys recover sooner than girl maybe because of their dignity, they cant be like a girl, keep crying, keep blurring, do nothing.. so on, they should behave more manly!!
@hireshd (492)
• India
8 Jun 09
Thanks for the response!!! Its true the one who suggested the break up is in a better position to come out of the situation. Happy Mylotting
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
Hi, I would not say it a girl or a boy. It depends on how true your love is. Your gender does not give you stength to go on in your life. You gain your streght from your confidence. Thus, it definately depends on the individu. Thanusha
@hireshd (492)
• India
8 Jun 09
Thanks for the response I think you are correct it the confidence on yourself to part away from the break up. Cheers!! Happy Mylotting
@vnrsudhan (1514)
• India
7 Jun 09
hi hireshd, i personally feel that boys recover faster than girls,because boys can change their mind to fit the situation,which many girls cannot.thats why it takes a lot of time for the girls to recover from a broken heart,but there are some girls who can recover quickly.
@hireshd (492)
• India
7 Jun 09
Thanks for your response, but dont you think it depends on the magnitude of love you have for someone which would decide who is able to get out it sooner or later?