if the man's standard not like you, is it easy to maintain the relationship?
By smallcloud
@smallcloud (338)
Malaysia
June 7, 2009 11:00am CST
i have a degree certificate and a proper education standard compare with my boyfriend, i can easily use english lang. to chat or to write, but my boyfriend's eng standard even lose than a old man. he is only have a secondary certificate and all the results on the certificate almost are fail.
the relationship hard to maintain but i pass through all of these as we are deeply love each other..how am i going to make all believe and have confident in our relationship. although love is both's but we also need others agree and support
i hope i can do it.but it is hard..how i can do?
1 response
@suryacool (106)
• India
7 Jun 09
First of all, i don't understand what do u mean by the term 'standard'.
Look miss, Love is a devine feeling. If you love him truly and if you are sure that this is the right man for you, then plz don't think about his academic failures. These things are not considered in love.
Imagine a situation, if a person is academically brilliant but a big cheat....then anyone can never be happy with that person.
And about your family's support and consent, you can convince them that He is the right person for you and make your parents believe that both of you will be happy being together. Your parents will decide the right thing for you..
All the Best....
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
my standard means level
for example , you may b a uni graduate but he is only a A lever graduate
can say that both of you growing and living a different world.
i believe that he is the one i am looking but what can i do to convince others?
they always said that i cant understand his world, and the world is really big different from us , you cant adopt it...such of these things , i get a lot but it din change my mind at all.. i tried to ignore them and just let them see the ending of us, but it is really i can do that dun care others' thinking and love without support untill the time i married?
@suryacool (106)
• India
7 Jun 09
okay. now you have to assign priority to your family and to ur love.
Make your final decision according to the priority u assign. Think hard over it. Afterall its your life
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 09
thank for your concern
i will try my best to do it
i love him as much as i love my family, my friend
thank for ur opinion
