How do you decide on loving someone?

Malaysia
June 7, 2009 11:18am CST
Have any of you been in situation where you might be loving two people but you dont know which one to choose from to make him the right one for you. One person can love you but never expresses his feelings yet another one loves you but scared to lose you but not wanting to have a relationship right now. Very complicated situation at times and I wonder what do you think?
3 responses
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
loving two individuals can be possible but the stage/amount of affection you felt for the two is different... right now, you felt confused because both of them were still in process of showing their love to you. my advice for you is to give them ample time to express themselves and choose the one whom you think is deserving of your love because if you'll continue to prevail confusions the tendency is you might lose the both of them... so give them time and choose one between the two... :)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 09
Yes you are right. What I feel for both are very different and yes I should give myself that time to think and see how and what I will decide upon at the end of the day. Thanks
• Saint Lucia
7 Jun 09
my experience on that is they are scared to lose you because of insecurities.the minute you help the become a confident individual the you lose them.having two loves not possible.we can love one person as deeply as love goes.
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
Yeah you are probably right. I guess in a way I have helped them in building their confidence. Yeah I know having two love is not possible so am just confused who to choose.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 09
and i will decide who is the one i love as in my heart only can stay one person so i should know who is my beloved one and if they all are passive, then i take the initiative for love, i dun care, it is better than both of us miss each other this time.. it may not be able got one more time for us to express our feeling so i prefer initiative rather than i lost my love.. it is my feeling la