Hayden Coh Scandal.. who's to blame?

Philippines
June 8, 2009 4:57am CST
I have watched one of Hayden Co scandal and I am speechless.. lol.. (pwede na, nyahahaha!) And I heared alot of people blaming Hayden Co... and I asked them.. Why Hayden Coh alone? I believe it is also Katrina, or those other girl's fault coz they made *** encounter on him. For me, all of them has to blame. How about you... share your insights...
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8 responses
@jules67 (2790)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
The people who uploaded it on the internet is the one responsible. But then, Hayden Kho should definitely be held responsible. After all, if there is no video, then there is no material to be uploaded. Up to this day, June 9, it is still being talked about and from the way it looks,seems like all fingers or mostly are pointing at Dr. Belo as the culprit. I don't think Katrina is to be blamed or Maricar. Their only mistake is that they agreed to do the deed with Dr. Kho.
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
If only Katrina or maricar do the right thing of making ***k to the one they love.. this will not happen... But I respect your opinion....
@jules67 (2790)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Thanks for your response. By the way, I believe that Maricar was Hayden's ex-girlfriend during medschool at UST. Happy Lotting!!!
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Really? Its the first time I hear that thing.. So, the scandal happen many years ago, right? Now I know.. Thanks for the response anyweiz...
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Okay, before i give out my sentiments regarding this issue, I just want everyone to know that this is just an opinion.. okay?? So no overreacting please? Well, in my own opinion, even though I'm a girl, I still believe what my Psychology professor once said that "girls always do the first move", no matter how smooth or drastic it is. I don't think there's only one person to blame and I think both of them did wrong. But I'm not really against Kho because as I see it and based on my friends who already watched it, Halili obviously is aware that she's being caught on cam. Besides, if girls don't really want it they should be careful enough of their actions. Why did they do it in the first place if they don't want the consequences? I haven't watched the video yet since I'm afraid to get caught by my family (or else that would be World War 3 haha) I know my opinion might be wrong, but I do hope justice and truth will still prevail. So that's it.. PEACE everyone.. =D Just an opinion though and I HOPE YOU'LL RESPECT IT ALL =D Cheers.. Be happy! PEACE AGAIN!
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
I do respect your opinion and I got what you are trying to say... I hope people would read your statement about the matter... This might ignite some arguments but I believe, all of us will learn something from each other. Your statement is one of the best in this thread. Thanks so much for a very wonderful response.. lovely. Happy mylotting sis!
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• Philippines
15 Jun 09
Glad that you agreed and respected my opinion =D I had negative ratings because of this one =D
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
Negative ratings? Where did you got the ratings? Are you working in the media? lol. Anyweiz, thanks for the continous response
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
i felt pity for hayden..i don't know,but it doesn't mean i am in favor with him,but i think he already regret everything. i felt mad for the person who scattered the video i hope he will caught na. but on the other hand,if it doesn't happen maybe hayden will still continuing doing such things to some other girls in the future.. i don't want to happen it to me..hehehe.joke.
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
I see... You have a good point on that sis. I believe, things happen to us because sometimes we have to learn from that mistake. Some stuff happen again and again because, maybe, God wants us to direct our ways. I believe, what happen is also for Hayden Coh's good. He should learn from this mistake. Anyways, thanks for a very nice response! It is one of the best.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
well in the future if i would have *** with my partner, i wouldn't want him to record it... i don't think it's proper though for others it's considered private... if walang video there wouldn't be evidences coming out dba? they're very much known here in the Philippines, they were public figures... ang pangit... for me it's hayden fault because he record videos without the girls' consent...
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Thanks for your response. But if those gals know that its inappropriate to have *** with that freaking guy, it will not happen... Sigh,, but anyways, I respect your opinion. This should be a lesson for every girls and guys who make f**k to a person whom they not love. Keep rockin' elsm!
@beejay24 (75)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
he really should be blamed on all of this. if not because of his pathetic and irresponsible act of videoing their activities as couple no issue will emerge like this one. katrina and marikar did that act out of love since that is now a normal activity of a couple at least that what katrina and marikar believes. but this irresponsible social climber doctor has made the love of this woman gone into vain to satisfy his lustful satisfaction.
@JamieRose (168)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
People should take responsibility of their actions. All of them are to blame, but if there's someone who is the "most wrong" of them all, it is Hayden Koh. Morally, the act itself is wrong because they are not married. Although Katrina Halili says that she loved Hayden, morally again, they aren't married which makes the act wrong. Here, since both of them are involved, both of them are wrong in this aspect. Second, the videoing of the act is wrong because that act is supposed to be an intimate act, it is meant to happen only under the knowledge of both Katrina and Hayden. Obviously, they used each other to achieve the "satisfaction" they are both yearning for. But Hayden made it even worse by practically "objectifying" Katrina even more, with the intention to view that video for his own benefit.
@paoxav (1382)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Well if he didn't make the video at all, it won't leak. So it's him to blame because he's the culprit. He deserves the maximum consequence possible on his terrible actions.
@rsa101 (15548)
• Quezon City, Philippines
8 Jun 09
Well I guess its not who's to blame in here. It is also who committed the bigger mistake by doing so. The girls were lured to do it it was their mistake indeed but then taking video without them knowing it is much graver than anything else. I think that is indeed an abused done by Hayden. The thing is even if it was made for his own personal collection the risk that it may leak out in the public is much greater and it did happen. The next thing to watch is who to blame for leaking the video? There are many parties involved and they should answer the question and what the purpose of why they have top release it.