what do u think pls be honest

bisexual female - bisexual female
United States
November 12, 2006 8:12am CST
ok if u have a wife or a gf and they are bi...would u be jealous of them or would u let them play alone or do u want to join in....pls answer honestly and pls explain....i am bi and my bf told me i can play alone as long as he gets to watch so what do u others think
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26 responses
@baysmummy (1638)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
Ok well honestly, i dont see the point in them being there at all if they are gonna join in and play as well, I saw the reply from your boyfriend and he said he isnt sure if he could join and not feel like it is cheating because he would be doing things to the other person, So does that mean he think you are cheating on him because you are doing things with another person? But then again if u like the best of most worlds why bother being in a relationship why not just be single and enjoy the time you have with the women and enjoy the time you have with a man, I class it has cheating no matter what apart from if you have permission from the other person to do it or if it is threesome! I say to your boyfriend come on mate just jump in and start playing i am sure you will really enjoy yourself
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• United States
14 Nov 06
i told him im comfortable for him to do that n its not cheatin on me as long as its in front of me and not behind my back.....well i dont wanna be single cuz we have children together so its a secret life for me being bi and noone in my family knows bout it either.....thanks for ur reply
• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur response
@baysmummy (1638)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
Ok i sorta understand now, i wish the best upon you both whatever you decide!
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@supersach (1523)
• India
14 Nov 06
I don't mean to be offensive or anything but I would not like my wife or GF to be a Bi.
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• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur response....no offensive taken thanks again
@supersach (1523)
• India
14 Nov 06
As a friend I would like to tell you that being a Bi will neither give you a stable life nor a stable relationship.
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• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur response thanks
• United States
29 Dec 06
I just have to ask why? Why is one not enough? This is why there is such an increase in diseases. I could not imagine allowing my significant other to please or be pleased by someone else. Frowning....
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• United States
31 Dec 06
well i would doit with someone i trust and know...thanks for ur response
@pendragon (3352)
• United States
28 Dec 06
I think you need a new boyfriend.Anyone who is with me, is with me, they want anyone else, then they can go be alone with them on their own time, casue it won't be my time any longer.Open relationships,are an oxymoron.
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• United States
31 Dec 06
thanks for ur response
• United States
28 Dec 06
Sounds like my hubby, I am Bi also
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• United States
31 Dec 06
cool...congrads to u and thanks for ur response
@dan20071 (724)
• Romania
28 Dec 06
I think that if you want a serious relationship with your bf then you should notice if he is disturbed or not by what you are doing. If he's okay with you doing that, then it's your call, if not, you are about to encounter a big decision of your life :)
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• United States
31 Dec 06
thanks for ur response
• India
28 Dec 06
yes i feel bad about it, it is not a topic for disussion,so i don't want to explain more.but i not ask to you bi-sexuality is bad its not concern with me. enjoy the life with d way you want.
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• United States
31 Dec 06
ok thanks for ur response
@parttimer (127)
• India
28 Dec 06
I dont have an issue as long as my GF or wife palys along with another female. But as a male, i should be the only one. I dont have an issue with either watching or joining in.
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• United States
31 Dec 06
cool thats awesome thanks for ur response
• United States
28 Dec 06
I'm also bi, and in a relationship with a man. He knew from the get go about my lifestyle and just like any other man was all for it. But when it came time for me to actually practice my lifestyle and be with girls he became very jealous. He wanted to be involved. We've had several threesomes but it always ends up with us fighting down the road. So, we've cut it out all together. We believe that any other physical contact regardless of who it's with is cheating, so at this point we're not doing it. I would love to be able to have a lil more fun with it so hopefully the trust issues will eventually be out of the way
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• United States
31 Dec 06
wow and im sorry...wish it was better for u...when me and my xhusband done it he just cheated on me so i cut it out...so the guy im with now wants it but im not sure of what im goin to do thanks for ur response
@srhelmer (6930)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
21 Dec 06
If you're going to be in a relationship with someone and want to add another person, they should get some say in it. However, it really comes down to how comfortable you are. And, if you don't want him watching then you need to address that.
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• United States
25 Dec 06
he does have a say in it but he wants me to do it but its like i did it once with my xhusband and he cheated on me so its hard decision for me to make thanks for ur comment
@djbtol (5498)
• United States
20 Dec 06
well, you certainly present and exciting and interesting option. But I do not see your relationship with you boyfriend being able to take this. You need to focus all of your energy on him.
• United States
20 Dec 06
thanks for ur comment
@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
12 Dec 06
Bunny2 - Bunny2
If you are take a vow of marriage, I believe that you should be monogamous. I believe only two people should be in that relationship. But if you are in an open relationship, without marriage, and you both agree, hey if it works for you go ahead. I do find it difficult to believe that you can have an ongoing relationship with one person and still sleep with other people, or allow your partner to. I believe that eventually something will give and the relationship will fail. Just my humble opinion.
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• United States
20 Dec 06
well im not married and thanks for ur comment and if i was married and i did it then atleast i know he wont cheat on me behind my back because i let him do it infront of me
@Sailor (1161)
• United States
10 Dec 06
BB-62 - BB-62
Well this is of mature cont. and you should know now I give real answers. I think that if you and your bf have come to a legitimate and mature understanding of this then fine. But speaking for myself only, if my girl were bi, I would want the other girl living under our roof as part of our household and that you were her only partner. Mostly because of STD's. Also it is less like you are going outside of the household. Then there is the part of what do you do if he wants to cheat or be involved with your girl occassionally? After all I'm quite sure he's not interested in any men, so you guys need to discuss this if not already. You also need to pay attention to the situation w your ex. He may try to use this against you in the courts. I know as a parent that your daughter is more important. Anyway, back to your bf. You guys need to make/have these discussions especially if you guys feel your relationship is serious.
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• United States
20 Dec 06
i have not been with a girl since i left my ex cus i was scared of that its been 4 yrs now since i been with another girl
@rocknroll (1536)
• India
14 Nov 06
no comments......
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• United States
14 Nov 06
ok.....thanks for ur response
@Meljep (1668)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Can you say STD and HPV. What are your plans for the future?
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• United States
14 Nov 06
trust me if he touched he be covered no std or anything like that will be pasted...thanks for ur response
• United States
14 Nov 06
hum well honestly i think i wouldn't want him to watch or join or have anything to do with it....so i think i wouldnt tell him when i played lol
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• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur respone n ur honesty
@poussin (82)
• India
14 Nov 06
I do not have any problems if my partner is a bi but would prefer that she informs or does all the encounters in my presence
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• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur response
@ZowieR (942)
• Canada
14 Nov 06
im bi to and my boyfriend lets me play alone and we sometimes have theesomes as long as were open and honest about everything and there are no other guys besides him, its all good.
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• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur response...its been awhile since i been with a girl adn was thinking bout it for bein my bfs xmas present last time when i done it the guy cheated on me behind my back....thanks again
@Solja420 (2507)
• United States
14 Nov 06
that would be awsome i wish my girlfriend was bi
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• United States
14 Nov 06
cool....thanks for ur response
@wathanjim (2215)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Dive in the middle become the meat in the sandwich
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• United States
14 Nov 06
thanks for ur response