do u think I m thinkning wierd.??
June 13, 2009 2:44pm CST
well, i dont think i m made for relationships..though everyone around me feels that i adjust more than any girl and etc..but I DONT THINK THAT I M MADE FOR RELATIONSHIPS..I FEEL SOMETIMES THAT I SHOULD SHUN THE WORLD AND LIVE IN SOLACE OR RATHER LIVE PEACEFULLY IN MOUNTAIN AREA...I FEEL THAT I SHOULD HAVE POWERS TO HELP PEOPLE BUT NOT FOR RELATIONSHIPS..THEY ARE SO COMPLEX..wat to say and wat not to..?? where to talk and where to keep quiet..?? its really so complex..?? people cant accept the way u are..?? there is something always to be worried about..?? i feel i m tried of all this.. i know u must be feeling that i m depressed or something but mom says that i have always been the same since childhood..!! m i weird in thinking this way..??
13 Jun 09
I think in the same way. I am 22 and think that relationships are a waste of effort because of how difficult they are. My friends say that my views will change when I meed 'the one' and my parents say that I will grow out of it. I think that for me, I need to chill out, be single when I want but then when I want a relationship, go for it and end it when it becomes a tire. I am not scared of being alone but I am scared of being with somebody when I want to be alone. If I get involved, sometimes I find it very difficult to escape. I did not know how to offer my advice but I hope that me sharing this quality with you helps. I know that you adding this post made me feel more relaxed that I am not alone with my feelings.
13 Jun 09
Hi drdivu, Well, as we might say in England, it sounds that you may need to get out more... That might be a little condescending to say that. I also tend to be a bit on the introverted side and can feel some similarities between us. I think that we are all made for relationships, but for some of us, we need to look longer and harder to find that special someone, that we feel comfortable with. Maybe you were quite reclusive in a previous life, I certainly feel that way at times... So, feeling this way doesn't necessarily mean that you are weird. It does sound that you need a bit of space, to be yourself and are certainly not one to be with the crowd - nothing wrong with that... take care, dreamhealer
17 Jun 09
hi..thanks alot but i guess that is not possible for me..after having tough time with 4 people in my life, so called my best of friends, its difficult for me to think they can be someone great..!! they left me coz three of them found either a gf or bf and they cant talk more to me coz of lack of time..!! thanks alot for supporting me..