How can I be in love with someone ive never met ?

Austria
June 14, 2009 3:42am CST
It started to me with a man in internet while we where chating but i dont think is really love,what do you think?
4 responses
@JamieRose (168)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Hello. I think that being "inlove" is too deep for this kind of relationship. Maybe it is just something more than attraction, but not really love. You should be careful with this kind of relationship. Because being inlove is really about knowing the person, everything about that other person. You can never really be inlove with someone you don't know.
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Yeah I agree wit you Jaime .. it is more than attraction a superior state of likness but not love . have a good time
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• Austria
14 Jun 09
I agree with you,so that i am careful and id like to discuss this with you,thanks for your answer
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
Hello babydoll You might like someone who you haven't met , but not love him , love is combination of all senses , not just to know about his personality .. I agree that we all like people we are chatting with or we wouldn't chat with them , and sometimes we might feel that we are too close to those people because we talk about so intimate things that we couldn't talk about it in real .. But it wont be love till we see the others , if we continued to like each other as we were online then we will progress to love .
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• Philippines
14 Jun 09
yeah i quite agree. people need to meet for real for a relationship to develop, be deeper than the online attraction and perhaps progress into love.
@amirhk (63)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 09
i dont know about you but that happened to me. I just knew it that she was the one for me and we met in a penpal kind of website. we communicate through email. soon after few months we sms and now we are a great couple. we plan to get married next year :). however this has to be taken slowly and carefully because when you're not seeing each other, a big hope can bring big disaster and heart broken if its not happen like what we want it to be. but good luck to you...give a chance to yourself while always be careful. take care!
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
if you don't think it's love then it probably isn't. people may feel attraction and mutual like but it's quite rare to find yourself in love with someone you haven't met. sometimes people think they are in love, but love is much deeper than that. it's different online compared to when you are together for real. but this is just me talking. what matters is what you feel.