How Do You Express to your Lover that you Love Them

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Saying I Love You is one of the many ways to express love, but doesn't it loose its luster after saying it over and over again? For it is so true in that Actions always do speak louder than words so finding ways to leave an imprint in our lovers heart isn't always easy . (especially for all of you of the male persuasion ) So I thought it might be nice to share some ways to put that spice back into your relationship: First and foremost. .. .Be who you are and not who you think they want you to be . .nothing is worse than a faker .. and sooner or later the real you comes out. Honestly and loyalty are part of the deal here...... Be empathetic - place yourself in your lovers position . .assuming may be a great way to save time but you all know what happens when we assume . . so try placing yourself in his/her point of view . . you may just see that you get better results! Don't be obsessive or obtrusive .. keep your distance for he/she may not be in the mood to cuddle up . .its so important to find the right time for those moments. Doing this shows that you respect their private space .. it can be so smothering to have someone grab at you when you just aren't feeling it. . And when those special times like birthdays and anniversary's are on the horizon, don't FORGET the day .. and to show how much you care try giving a present from the heart . . . something that they may actually use . . . and I am not talking about a new toaster! Maybe they have a passion and you can get something they can use to create what they love to do . .for example, if they like the art of handwriting . maybe they want to or already know calligraphy . what a heart warming gift the pen and the thought behind the pen would generate . . And lastly don't cheat . . even that age old .. we just went for a coffee doesn't cut it when you want someone to feel that you love and cherish them &hearts so fellow lotters . .do you hav any other suggestions to show &hearts to your lover?