What do you do when a friend dose an a act that you totally do not agree with?

United States
June 15, 2009 4:03pm CST
Last night i was watching a show and it made me think what would i do. so I tried to think to when a friend of mind may have done aomthing i was not in agreement with. A friend of mine started dating a married man. I feel strongly about this because my father has dated many women while still married to my mother. so when my girl pull this mess it vexed me some bad. I mean i had a hard time interacting with her. I thought she was being stuid to belive that this man loved her like he said he did. I kept telling her well he will never leave his wife. Well guess what he left his wife. so this made me go back to her and say that i may have been wronge because every man is not like my father. Well just a few days ago she tells me that he is not cheating on her with his ex wife. she found out from his five year old daughter. Now that is some Karma. I just would like to hear what would you do if one of your friebds did somthing you did not agree with how would you respond to that friend?
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@jayrene (2713)
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
if it's something else, i would give her all the advice she needs to keep her wake up from what she is doing especially if it is something wrong. but if it is something like what you have exampled here about your friend... i would be really upset. i will still give her my advice but if she will not listen and would still go on breaking somebody else's marriage then i would be really angry with her, as i came from a broken family and if there is one thing that i dont approve of, its something like that, other women...
• United States
16 Jun 09
Thanks for you thoughts.
• United States
16 Jun 09
A also agree with you when you come from a broken home it give you a different perspective.
@theonerm5 (365)
• United States
15 Jun 09
I'd lose respect for my friend but at the same time I'd know her or she would eventually learn from their mistakes.
• United States
16 Jun 09
I understand what you mean. thanks for your input.
• Malaysia
19 Jun 09
As a friend, I will keep on giving her advices and analyze the consequences of her decision with her so that she'll not do the mistake. However, if she insisted to do so, then I will just be there and listen to her when she realized that she is wrong and regret with her decision. And, for sure she'll also learn from the mistake.