how to mend the broken heart of a friend(girl) whom you dont love,but like a lot

Australia
June 16, 2009 1:44am CST
when you have so many friends around (specially girls)its really hard to know what they have in mind even if you know she likes you ,you wont go up to her and saying you dont think of her in such a way,thats arrogant !! so slowly and steadily a silence relationship is born when both of you would like to be silent on the mode of relatioship. this is okay untill you dont have anyone else in your life ,but dream shatters as soon as one of you get a partner and the relationship you have seems fading the problem gets worse when you dont know the step you gonna take will get u to a better life or worsen it in this case where you have to choose one will take you far from the other one and its really hard to that. coz u dont want to break someones heart
2 responses
@med889 (5958)
16 Jun 09
This is ineed a delicate situation here so as It concerns emotions so better consult the heart first to be able tomake a decision and if not then try to combine both heart and the mind to be able to decide what you have to do now. I will continue to do my level best to maintain the wonderful friendship I share with that person though I know It can be difficult also and try to see what happens.
• Australia
16 Jun 09
thanks for the concern and nice suggestion it is really a tricky situation it will involve a lot of time ,i think patience would also be tested anyways ,thanks for good suggestion
@abanerji (1026)
• India
16 Jun 09
this is a tricky situation. suppose you have a friends who likes you but you don't feel such for her. then you must let her know about your feelings. as a good friend you nee to respect her feelings and also not let her one sided feelings grow. because if her one sided feelings for your grow then it would be very difficult for her to see you with someone else. i think whatever, be tha case, everything should be trasparent between friends. if things are clear then there are less problems and heart breaks. suppose you keep a person i dark just because you dont wish to hurt feelings then a time would come when the person would be hurt because you always hid facts from the person.
• Australia
16 Jun 09
thanks friend you seems to have passed through same situation or you know it well thanks for the suggestions