I am jealous of the person who referred me here........

India
June 16, 2009 12:56pm CST
My friend told me about mylot and made me his referal.....didn't told me that he'll get the 25 percent of what i earn.....he has 7 rferals and now he does nothing and still makes more money than me.......i do all the work all the typing and cashes in the money..... Isn't there a way so that i may de-refer myself.......
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57 responses
• United States
16 Jun 09
personally when I sign up for something and I see that they have a slot asking if someone Referred me, I will actually go out of my way to find someone on the site and say they referred me even when they didn't, Jealousy is a stupid reason to take something away from someone, I would recommend getting your own referrels :)
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• India
16 Jun 09
what do i say....can't control the feelings......
1 person likes this
16 Jun 09
yes jealousy is really stupid.. you should be grateful that he's brought here and your getting so much more than a measly 25c! Just being paid alone here is a privilege so don't concern yourself with your mate sitting on his behind and doing nothing.. You're actually getting more out of this than he is.. besides what could you possibly buy with 25c these days?..
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@Toxicon (165)
• United States
17 Jun 09
You can get your own referals and start making 24% bonus from what they contribute as well, just ask other friends and family to log in under your referal link, you can find your link by going to your earnings page, then select the referal tab and it will show you what your link is. There are also many creative ways you can get your referal link out there, you say you like to write so start a blog and add your link to it, maybe you'll end up with more referals than your friend and make more than he does, and since you will still be writing you'll be making more anyway, and not just money wise. Just remember, to every negative, somewhere there's a positive.
@Toxicon (165)
• United States
17 Jun 09
Ok it's to early in the morning for me and my coffee hasn't woke me up completely, yes, I meant to say 25% not 24%. I'm sure you knew what I meant but I like to clarify.... Either way, good luck getting referals of your own and I hope you and your friend, in the near future, can talk about how you both make good money from your referals . Have a great day, I'm off to make more coffee
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@Bionicman (3967)
• Czech Republic
16 Jun 09
My referral doesn't use mylot anymore. I think she has less than 10 posts and I know she referred a lot of people to this and other sites but she gave up on this money making thing after a few weeks of trying because she thought it takes too much time and that she wasn't very successful. That was 3 years ago. The money from referrals should have really add-up by now and I'm wondering if she even knows how much she's earning...
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• United States
16 Jun 09
It's possible that she's not earning anything now though. I think mylot deletes your earnings after three months of not logging in at all, so her earnings might keep getting thrown away anyway. That is unfortunate though.
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
Think of it this way, if it wasn't for your friend, you wouldn't be in this site anyway. Regard it as a token of appreciation and gratitude. Don't just be selfish about yourself that your doing all the work and your friend does not. I don't mind if my friend refers me here. I consider myself earning too. Besides, you have all the options to add friends just like what your friend did right? Sometimes we need to understand that being "thankful" is better than complaining. Your friend invited you here for you to earn in the first place, so don't feel anything bitter about it. If you can't accept the fact, then you better grow up. This is how the system works here or in any money online. There is another way you gain by being a member here on Mylot, you have the chance to befriend other members who know better than you in earning money. So cheer up and start to invite more friends and be eager to know about other things that matters.
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• India
16 Jun 09
i am not that way......you know even your kindness and goodwill annoys me.....but i'll try to think "that" way....
• China
17 Jun 09
haw-haw, maybe you think it is not fair that you do the response and your friend do nothing though he get the money too .just be easy , it's a way that make mylot known by more people ,and you have no lose in fact ,
@Maggiepie (7821)
• United States
17 Jun 09
[b]Jealousy is always a stupid emotion, & it's especially so in this case, as your friend isn't taking money from you anyhow; it's a side effect of turning on a friend to the wonders of MyBot! My knowledge of this site came from my best friend, & I'm extremely glad my posts earn her--as well as me--money! That's how FRIENDS treat one another! Your friend needs a better friend! Jealousy is selfish. You need to chill & get over yourself. If you want to earn more, then go find people to come in under you. That's how it works. Me, I don't even worry about how much I make, because it's only pennies, anyway. I'm here for the fun. Maggiepie[/b]
@vkakochu (67)
• India
17 Jun 09
You shouldn`t think that way.You should think that you can refer 10 more members so that you can earn more from your referrer.
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@Christoph56 (1508)
• Canada
16 Jun 09
Instead of being so bothered that he made a referral to you and is making money off of it, why don't you just go out and start making referrals through other people? That way, you'll make money off of what they put up. If you can get enough people to do it, then you'll be making plenty.
• India
16 Jun 09
i have three referrals with zero posts....
• Canada
16 Jun 09
Well then you've already begun! Keep on doing it, posting the information on bigger sites, and soon enough, you'll be getting more and more. It just takes time.
@maezee (32288)
• United States
16 Jun 09
You should also message them with some tips about how they can get started earning on myLot. Sometimes it can be confusing to be so new; they might just need a friendly welcome. It's worth a shot, anyway.
@loolets2 (106)
• United States
16 Jun 09
I am jealous of everyone who makes more than me. I am trapped at home with a young one, no car, and in desparate search for ways to make money and I have no referrals they all just refuse
@loolets2 (106)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Wow! Thanks for your help, I'll try it. :)
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
16 Jun 09
I don't think you can de-refer yourself. You would just have to stop using this account and create a new one. I don't see what it is hurting, you are still getting paid for what you are doing. You just need to get yourself some referrals so you can sit back and relax and get the money. I have 3 or 4 referrals but they aren't active so i don't get money from them anyway.
• India
16 Jun 09
there should be a provision to de-refer ........how do i get referral......i can't just start sending mails to unknown people askig them to join
@1hopefulman (28612)
• Canada
19 Jun 09
You can do like your friend, talk to other friends.
@eysian (125)
• United States
18 Jul 09
Well... 1.) The person who referred you here got you the ability to make money. 2.) Get referrals of yourself to be in the same situation. 3.) You earn too! You got NOTHING to lose. 4.) Making a post here will probably lead to your friend seeing it... which will make problems worse. 5.) Just keep on doing it! Doesn't matter. In this world, it's all about mutual relationships. Who cares if you're referred under someone? He helped you learn about this so why not let him get something too? 6.) Just keep on what your doing and you'll be fine. Get referrals, participate, and you'll make money as well!
• India
19 Jul 09
points noted my lord..... are you also referred by someone???
@sweetyethot (1738)
• China
18 Jun 09
Im jealous of your friend too.I dont know how to de-refer oneself.lol Maybe there's no such thing as de_referring oneself.I have two referrals,but they are not active at all.I make all the money myself.
• India
19 Jun 09
look for a way and we both can find a way to de-jealousyfy us....
• United States
16 Jun 09
oh geez, it's a game play it, if you want referrals but you don't want to be one yourself, well it's up to you
• India
16 Jun 09
do you like this game?
@John4Christ (1598)
• India
16 Jun 09
Well i feel its ok, He referred you to this site so he deserves to get that 25% comission.......you too can get your own referrals.....place you referral id on your blog or some forums, social networking sites(but don't spam) you can invite your close friends and family members to join this site.....so you could also sit back and get some earnings.....but yes somewhere human as we are we we feel why does someone earn because of me......its all about what relation you have with this friend of yours.... coming back to your question , I really don't think there is a way to de-refer your friend.......
• India
16 Jun 09
i enjoy writing in here........so even if i get the referral i wo'mt stop writing...
@meggggg (155)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
i don't think you are losing anything, are you?
@Loen210 (1533)
• United States
23 Jun 09
I so agree with many of the postings thinking that you should NOT be JEALOUS of your friend at all. However, an idea came to me, that how about to make it even and make you feel more level, even, then how about you refer HIM to one of YOUR sites, so you earn some of his work too? :o)
@mflower2053 (3227)
• United States
23 Jun 09
Thats crazy. What kind of friend are you? Why don't you ask how he got the referals and if he can help you get some? I think that is great that he has people under him earning. I am sure he worked hard to get people under him. You wouldn't be making money right now if it wasn't for him telling you about the site. So think him. The people under me don't do crap for me so he is lucky and like you I am jealous but that doesn't mean just give up. It means you have to work harder.
@dismalgrin (2470)
• United States
21 Jun 09
Why don't you just get some referrals for yourself. It isn't right about your friend not being on mylot anymore. That is not the point of the referral system. It is to encourage everyone to get more people to join in. I would hope that you wouldn't do that to your friends after getting all of them to sign up. That being said, you shouldn't hold it against the person that referred you that they are making money from your earnings. It's not that you would make more if they hadn't referred you. And how do you know that you would have even heard of mylot if you hadn't been referred?
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
Im sorry friend but I don't see any reason why you feel thay way. In the first place, he was the one who opened the opportunity for you to earn from here. Like in my case, I invited my friends to join here so they too can earn extra income. I am actually helping them. Then the referral benefit is an added attraction. What you can do is take advantage of the referral as well. So you are helping others and earning as well.
@1hopefulman (28612)
• Canada
19 Jun 09
Make him jealous of you. Got out and get even more referrals than he has. Make some flyers and leave them in mailboxes. Give a card or flyer to everyone you meet. Ask them to do you a favor and join, it's free, and they can earn some extra cash. I too don't know my referrer. I think their name was angel but have never seen any posts by this angel. Makes me wonder?