well im depressed because of this girl.

@o0jopak0o (6394)
Philippines
June 16, 2009 1:28pm CST
i really like this one girl from school. We have became friends for a very short time. Im feeling that i like to be more than friends with her but the taught of losing that friendship rather than rejection is getting me depressed. well this girl before was getting in love with someone whom she taught was getting in love with her too. and her outlet of depression and sadness is through me. But now i know that the phase in her life is over but her heart is getting colder every time this happen to her. if i let time pass then this moment of what im feeling will be gone but telling her will be my imminent rejection. how life is really depressing. if this is it, then this is the first friend that i will try to court.
2 responses
jules67
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
I understand that your feelings transcended a step further. You wanted her to be your girlfriend. But there is a big but. You are afraid of losing her as a friend. Ok. Which do you think is more important to you, your friedship with her or the possibility of a relationship. You have to sort your feelings well and weigh the consequences. You have to make a choice, an intelligent choice. Life is all about taking risk, and I believe it is a risk that you have to take. Better do something. At least, you would know what would happen than just make assumptions.
o0jopak0o
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
having both would be the best situation which is harder to do. well im letting her feel my presence but because of that friendship thing all is like a big joke to her. Well... this is also my fault, i joke around people about this one like asking some other girl friend if i can court her and then laugh about it. she's really not taking it seriously.
diamania
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
16 Jun 09
If we could bring life to court then you wouldn't be the first to do so. Life and love is ( or can be... before I get bombarded by positive-minded people) crap. I told 'my' girl I love her yesterday and it left her cold. It sounds crap but I am used to it really. Anyway, good luck with your impasse mate, this must be real hard times you go through.