Getting involved with women older than 30, while you are just 25?

Peru
June 16, 2009 7:15pm CST
What do you think? I like women older than me... Please share your thoughts.. is this possible? how the relationship will go ? it is worthy? or it isnt?
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9 responses
• China
17 Jun 09
In fact ,this phenomenon is called Oedipus complex. As far as i am concerned , age isn't a problem. If your feeeling is true ,then go for it . But there is a suggestion for you :you should try to communicate with each other more so that you can have a better understanding of her and mange this relationship better! Best wishes!
@meandmy3 (2229)
• United States
17 Jun 09
There are a lot of things to consider, like does she have children and if not how soon does she want to have children. If she does have them are you ready for the responsibility to be a step parent, (if it leads to that) Then there is the fact that fertility decreases as you get over the age of say 35, so you could be limited on having children. other than that if you like the same things, same sports, same music, have things in common, and the age difference is not greater than ten years then why not.
• Peru
17 Jun 09
We had a "date" together... that was yesterday. we ate together... then while we were eating she said to me "i'm pregnant" and that she lives with her husband.. shes actually not married, she just lives with him... i feel so bad and unlucky
@meandmy3 (2229)
• United States
17 Jun 09
I would run as fast as I could in the opposite direction.
@calyxus (827)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
Does age really matter? I think everything depends on how you handle the relationship. For me, it doesn't matter if the girl is older or not as long as both of you are happy and contented with each other. Happy mylotting, calyxus
@Tessalim (33)
• Malaysia
18 Jun 09
To me, there is no age boundary in a relationship. As long as both of you really love each other.
• India
17 Jun 09
Your choice is always yours. As per my consideration relationships are about understanding each other and having tolerance for each other. It id not about age or who is younger and who is older. But said that as in every relationship you are going to face lots of challenges not because of age but it is human nature to disagree at times and then you are going to have confrontations. From my own experience you tolerance and love is going to be tested time and again in each relationship. Just keep your cool in times of cool and try not to react instantly during heated discussions. It will hurt you and the person you love. Always during a fight remember that the fight is worth nothing because the person against whom you want to win is the very person you love ............. and there is no winning or losing in love. It is all about being together.
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
17 Jun 09
I'm not sure what the real problem here is, or even if there is one. I don't understand why the concerns about the age differences. If you like the person & she likes you, age difference by itself shouldn't be a factor in weather you want to date her or not. I've dated someone who was 28 years older than I was at one point. I was 22 & she was 50. And it wasn't just a casual "dating" either. We have gotten pretty serious. If I were to consider someone as a possible mate, age isn't even a factor for me.
@jammyt (2824)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
5 years is not such a bad gap. It is normal for guys to like women older than they are. Some relationships would last because the woman usually undertsands the guy because of the fact that she is older. It may be worth it, it may not be. Age is not the basis of how strong a relationship can last.
• United States
17 Jun 09
You are 25, not 18. If you like older women and they like you , there isn't a problem.You are both adults and if you make that connection, that's what matters.
@sameroad (3180)
• United States
17 Jun 09
thats up to you man. if you like older women then date them. I wouldn't mind dating an older women but not too older. i'm 21. i'd go with 30 but not higher. i think anyway lol age is just a number. you can't help how you feel. so do whatever feels good to you.