Whats the best thing or quality you look in a relation?

@dhawanbm (3705)
India
June 17, 2009 7:12am CST
Well relations are made out of concerns and looking at the qualities of a person. The best thing of relations is that you overlook all other shortfalls of a person and adopt him/her completely without concerns and hinderances! Do you look for something special or quality in a person, before leaping into a relation?
6 responses
@momiecat (997)
• United States
17 Jun 09
The best quality for me in a good relationship is honesty. That is the solid foundation that will hold a couple together and is the basis for all good relationships. Of course there are other qualities that I look for in a relationship but that one is #1 on my top 10 list. I think that more relationships would last if this was the foundation the relationship is built on.
@kaguvkov (1041)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
I look for the attitude. It is in this attitude that you will deal for most of the time or maybe for the rest of your life if both of you decided to get married. Knowing the person you like first before going in for the relationship will help you choose properly if who will fit for you.
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
The first thing that I see when I get attracted is their best qualities. Then I look for the thing that I hate. If I can tell myself that I can live with that person's flaws then I let that feeling grow. The reason I do this is because, the best qualities are always there, but the bad ones are more often hidden during courtship so I look for these because these are the one's that I would have to adjust to or try to cope with everyday in case we decided to tie the knot.
@oinkgiz (865)
• Singapore
17 Jun 09
hi, thanks for sharing this discussion... for me,qualities that i looked in the relationship are trust and respect.. these are the 2 very important quality for me... without trust and respect your relationship will not succeed... your not gonna be happy and you'll never last... a happy and healthy relationship start with these 2 (trust & respect) and also ends with it... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
Hi there! You're right. It is important that we love the person including his flaws because sometimes, that's what makes him or her unique and endearing. We should accept the person that we love for who she or he really is. In a relationship, I think it is important to have an open, honest communication at all times. I believe that this strengthens the relationship and prevents a lot of misunderstanding.
@TrvlArrngr (4058)
• United States
17 Jun 09
the person should be my best friend. we should get along like 2 peas in a pod. finish each others sentences. I want someone that I know I will enjoy going out with and staying home and doing chores with.