If something is troubling you to whom will you confide/

Mauritius
June 18, 2009 2:25am CST
I am passing many difficult moments these days but i am unable to tell anyone about my problems for fear that they may laugh at me. Do you think i must confide in someone close to me. What about you do you tell someone about your problems?
7 responses
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
hi valentina, Well no man is an island. That is the reason why God has created another human for us to share what we feel even it is a happy or sad events in our life. You need to confide it to someone whom you dearly love, someone whom you think will give you an intelligent advice. Don't be afraid to hear what comments they will give you. I am sure if that person really is a concern one he or she will tell you the right advice even though it hurt, it is ok and it will be for your own good. Thanks Can you be my friend?
• Mauritius
23 Jun 09
Ya of course i would like to be your friend. thanks for the proposal i hope we can be good friends.
• China
18 Jun 09
well, in this case i'd confide in my boyfriend. Hehe, i think the relationship is based on kind of trust. He's my boyfriend so he would accept me for who i am, and i think that's important~
• Mauritius
18 Jun 09
Actually i have no boyfriend but i think it will be best for me to confide in a boyfriend if ever i get one
• India
18 Jun 09
Hi Valentina.. what a nice name..I wont ask you what all troubles are u going through now, but i hope everything gets settled soon..Well, seriously i too have several problems but i also dont tell it to anyone but just confine it within my heart..sometimes in my room where im alone, i just cry...but what else to do.. i dont have that clsoe friends too..and like u said i also think that they will make fun of me , rather than finding any solutions or pacifying us..then i will pray to god-ask him why its happening to me and why i cant share it with anayone... Valentina, dont worry dear..I will pray for u and if you wish I would like to be a caring friend for you.. let me know, okay..? I hope i can find a solution to your problems.
• India
18 Jun 09
Hi Valentina.. what a nice time..I wont ask you what all troubles are u going through now, but i hope everything gets settled soon..Well, seriously i too have several problems but i also dont tell it to anyone but just confine it within my heart..sometimes in my room where im alone, i just cry...but what else to do.. i dont have that clsoe friends too..and like u said i also think that they will make fun of me , rather than finding any solutions or pacifying us..then i will pray to god-ask him why its happening to me and why i cant share it with anayone... Valentina, dont worry dear..I will pray for u and if you wish I would like to be a caring friend for you.. let me know, okay..? I hope i can find a solution to your problems.
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
It depends on my problem, if its a general problem il confide with my mom or sister. But when its about my family or business i would turn to my boyfriend. My friend is out of the country and she barely goes online so right now i cant confide with her.
@dodo19 (47050)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Jun 09
Personally, I confide in my fiance, because at this point in time, he's one of the closest person that I have to confide in and he's really one of the very few people that I have easy time talking to. The other person that I would talk to is my best friend. It's just difficult to do so, as we live in two different countries. But I know that if I really need to, then I can easily go to her and talk to her.
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
My first question is this, do you have someone who are very close to you that you trusted about problems, if there is then confide with her. I have the attitude of keeping my problems to myself, there are problems that is often keep rather than sharing, some of my problems I can solve it myself why confide with other people anyway. If your dear friends are really dear and true they will not laugh at you.