man has wandering eyes

@Alize997 (190)
United States
June 18, 2009 1:22pm CST
If your out with your boyfriend and you catch him looking at other females. Do you find this offensive? Would you mention it to him if you thought it was? If you don't find it offensive, why is that?
4 responses
@babykeka80 (2003)
• United States
18 Jun 09
Men just like women are attracted to people other than the one their with that is inevitable. If a man glances at a woman and glances away I am okay with that. However, if he is being blatantly disrespectful by gawking I am going to say something and have. I do find it offensive because it is disrespectful in my opinion and it makes the other person feel inadequate.
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@MsAshley (39)
• United States
20 Jun 09
Well me personally not really I wouldn't find it offensive to me because I would probably be looking at her too honestly. I could be looking cause I like what i see or because i'm trying to find out why he really lookong.
@spalladino (17925)
• United States
18 Jun 09
Men...and women...shouldn't be expected to go blind when they enter into a relationship but there's a fine line between looking and being disrespectful to your partner. My husband will look at a pretty girl but he won't sit there and gawk at her or...worse yet...make any comments. I look at guys too from time to time but I don't disrespect my husband by staring...or drooling.
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
18 Jun 09
Hello Alize997, if I catch him looking too long I squeeze his hand to let him know I saw it. But as long as he is living I know he will look I only want him to not make it so obvious. Sometimes he makes a comment on the way a female dresses like she shouldn't be wearing that or what was she thinking by choosing that outfit. When he was out of work I used to watch the style channel with him so he learned a little about style and fashion. I had a cousin that passed away last year that used to model in Milan and I showed him some photos of my cousin because my b/f respects art of all kind.I look too and I am not obvious when I do look