Its hard for you to make a decision?

@myx_03 (540)
Philippines
June 19, 2009 12:59pm CST
Honestly, for me its hard to make decision. I cant make a decision on my own,there must be someone who can help me to decide,.. But sometimes i decide right away but i dont know if it is good enough. I want to hear your comments,on how do you make a decision in life. :)
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@Wink24 (167)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
Hello pren..^^ Hmm.. i can't also make decisions by myself alone too. But here are some of my options: first,i'll think for advantage and disadvantage of my decision. Second, i'll ask my family or friends for some advice Third, i follow my heart..^^ Fourth, let them (parents) decide for me, T.T Those four are not related from each other huh..^^ Gudnight pren..^^
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
30 Jun 09
Hi pren, thank you for responding to my discussion. You Im a little bit weird about making decisions, i need someone to help me but after that i always fall in my own decision. God bless!
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
yes why? because you dont know what will be the result when u make a decision but best of all know the opinion of your parents first because they know what is best for you and pray to God tell him to guide you GBU!!!! muhaha!!
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
Wehehe,.. Thanks brother!
@bird123 (10526)
• United States
20 Jun 09
To make a decision, first get all the information possible. Next get a sheet of paper. Write the good on one side, the bad on the other. At this point, the decision is pretty clear. If not, search your soul. Is this what you really want?? How does it affect people in this world. Is it a selfish or selfless act?? So now decide knowing that if you make the wrong decision that it will be alright for you will just learn from the mistake and know what to do next time!
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
Nice, thats a good idea, thanks you for the response.
• United States
19 Jun 09
I just made a decision on a new cell phone, but first checked with two friends and my dad because i really didn't want a phone that is a flip phone but one with a keyboard that i can text better on since all my friends text instead of calling. It was between a lot of phones but then i cam across a free phone called the Rant from Sprint and i already had a sprint contract so i just got a new phone and through sprint and it was easy and the phone was free and everything was good and i didn't really need to ask others about it but i did just in case because making the wrong decision is not always a good thing because then you get stuck with whatever you did wrong and i don't like that.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
@kykidd... Thanks for the comment, i really appreciate it. Thank you
@kykidd (6819)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Sometimes my mind gets clogged and I have the hardest time making the simplest decisions. But when I my mind is working well, I think that I make good decisions for myself. I do like to bounce ideas off of other people. This sometimes can bring out the good or the bad of each idea. Then I have the opportunity to weigh my options with the positive and negative sides of it. This can sometimes make it easier to make a decision, if I am struggling. Good luck to you. I hope you get your mind cleared and are able to easily make good choices!
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
we really need to think before we decide.
@EliteUser (3971)
• Australia
29 Sep 09
Hey, Yes of course, whenever I need to make a decision, I have to always consult my brother, because I think that it is better to get 2 people's opinion on something or even more, rather than just one person's opinion. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@flaky03 (225)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
@ myx_03: Making decisions is not actually easy as he you are choosing from the set of options provided. We should always think a hundred fold or more before we come up with the final. Try to weigh things like thinking what are the possible consequences and results. Dont hesitate to ask assistance or help from others. On my part i always seek someone's advise because i dont want to end up as a loser. However dont rely too much with them since you need to decide on your own. Learn from these people, their experiences. That's what i mean