will you marry the one you love?

China
June 20, 2009 3:33am CST
Hi, my lotters will you marry the one you love? or will all the love come to the marrige? now i have a gf, and a 10-year-long love story, but i come to the condition that i must marry her before September, or she will leave. and i am 27. and why i am afraid of wedding? and maybe some, any, advice you would give me and happy day! thanks
5 responses
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
yes of course ill marry the one i love!! why because I love her so much i want to be with her everyday almost every second ^_^
• China
24 Jun 09
and thanks for your comments, i will consider your advice! happy mylotting! and a nice day!
• China
21 Jun 09
i do not know what you are afraid of. 10 years long story is a precious experience, it is worth cherishing. in my opion,every girl want to marry earlier, especially after 25. marriage is very great for both of you. if you are only for this and give up such a girl you have loved for 10 years. i think it is not a coorect choice. maybe she is just kidding with you!
• China
22 Jun 09
hi friend, i dont think she is kidding. i know that is difficult for both of us to keep a love story for a so long time, and i know it is not correct for me to put back the weeding.but i just dont like the marrige, i dont wann marry with anyone now. i like the frreedom i have now! and thanks for you comments and all the best wolferking!
• China
20 Jun 09
You does not want to marry the person you love? Yeah, i will marry the person i love. Now, my BF and me have a 6-year-long story, and we will marry in the next year. Your GF is together with you for 10years, why do not marry? i do not understand
• China
22 Jun 09
yes,i like to marry the one i love, but i dont wanna marry now! i love her very much, but i dont get ready to marry! and thank you for you comments! have a nice day!
• China
20 Jun 09
I have been confued with the same question like you. The different thing is that no one woman force me to marry with her. Though you guys have been together for ten years,you want to live with her fou all of your life? You have to think about this question. Now my thinking is that just live with one person for so long time is beyond imagination. Maybe this is because i haven't met the half of mine. Is she the half of yours? Nobody can help you. Maybe your anwer can help you to make decide. Good luck!
• China
22 Jun 09
yes, heizhugan, always the one who is in the situation is confused.and thank you for the comments. and have a nice day!
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• India
20 Jun 09
u can marry her as u knw her from past 10 year.. and being feared of marriage is quite possible as u dont knw wat to do and how to be after your marriage and how to adjust life with her and parents...
• China
22 Jun 09
yes we have a 10 years long story, and we know about each other very well. and i just dont know how to ajust to the life after marrige@! and thank you for you advice and which will be considered!