What you will do if you are tired and next door girl liste music so loud?
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
June 21, 2009 6:06am CST
You will go there and ask nicely to keep music not to loud, or you will call the building administrator and ask him to go there and talk with girl to keep music in resonable limits?
Or if she or he don t want stop this loud music you will call police?
Or maybe you will listen this music ? and enjoy?
If you respect others why others don t respect you?
I am happy, i have 1000m yard around me....so nowbady can t disturbe my silance, is so nice and relaxing....but if somebody enter in my house, and want rubber me...i can cry a lot, nowbody can hear me.
So, advantages and disavantages....
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16 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
21 Jun 09
first i would ask her myself if she can turn it down, and if she want to be a b about it, then call whoever to have her turn it turn. then when i know she's sleeping take my speakers and put against the wall on her side and turn it up loud and wake her up
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@flyisky (196)
• China
21 Jun 09
Things like it always happen around me. Of course, the best answer is I do my sleep and she listen her music without disturbing each other. It works sometimes, what if it failed? In this case, I prefer to asking her to turn down the music. But icesmile, just like every coins has two sides. I suggest you better keep a dog that would be nice.
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@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
21 Jun 09
I will go and ask she to keep music down, and maybe she must to be polite and let music down...if not, i will call administrator for sure, i need my silent moment, when i am tired, and i never disturbe somebody, so, if i respect, i ask same from others.
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@candy2306 (576)
• India
21 Jun 09
hi icesmile, i would go and meet her. tell her that i too enjoy loud music. however, today i'm exhausted and kindly request her to low down the volume. it's nothing wrong to request kindly to anyone.
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@lkumarldh (142)
• India
22 Jun 09
i will ask her to reduce volume of the mucsic politely . If she does it then ok otherwise i have to do something else like moving self from some other place or will ask some from his family to get it done........
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@lovesexmoneymaker (143)
• Singapore
22 Jun 09
If you are a dude i would try to ask her out for a date if she hot but ask her out anyway if shes not hot. Because sometimes in life we have to understand others first before others will understand us. It would be easier to tell her how you feel about the noise if you are her friend. The moral is try to be friends. Don't we always listen to our friends. I hope you see my point because if you strike a nerve it would get you nowhere..........it could only get worse.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
23 Aug 09
If the neighbours play their music too loud, either my husband or myself will go and tell them nicely that their music is too loud, and then we'll nicely ask them if they would please turn it down.
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
22 Jun 09
Well, I think that depends. If her loud music means nothing to me and disturbs me not a bit, I'll just keep silent and go to sleep. This may sound mad because there is seldom anyone who can bear loud music while wanting to have a rest. But sometimes if I feel tired, I can hardly think of nothing except having a good rest. Music is nothing to me. But if the music disturbs and bothers me badly, I'll surely go to her place and tell her to turn it down a little bit in a mild way. As long as we're neighbours, I think she should know better than doing nothing about it.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
22 Jun 09
Music doesn't bother me at all. I would never report someone for loud music. Sometimes it drowns mine out and I just give up and turn mine off and listen to theirs. I don't like reporting people at all and if something were really bothering me..I'd rather try to work it out with them. If someone were hurting someone ...that I would report but music...no.
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@vinslounge (1295)
• India
21 Jun 09
If the girl is quite charmful and sexy, then i wont mind her listening to Music that loud. Infact I would give her a helping hand to dance.:) But the case is applicable only if the girl is gorgeous. Else I would politely ask her to keep the volume low and if she is not responding to it the I would be in a position to complain about the incident to the administrator of the Apartments so that a necessary action could be taken.
@kyreasia (4)
• United States
22 Jun 09
i would initially go to the neighnor and talk with her. That would notmally help. Then if that didn't work i would take the next apropiate steps. Some people don't respect how their neghbors might feel and that you can all enloy the neighborhood if you respect eachother.
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@jagdaleomkar5 (10)
• India
21 Jun 09
this is very funny condition ! few suggestions for that 1. talk smoothly - try to convince her to low down volume,i am getting disturbed due to this,say please while talking. 2. if she is rude then tell her some fake reason..that I have high blood pressure problem..or some heart disease anything..if she is kind then it will work for you. 3. then also she's not agreed to switch off music tell her that my neighbor is policeman he'll do some strict action against u that will definitely work!!!
@leakey111 (29)
• China
22 Jun 09
If I am in this condition,I will talk with the girl and kindly request her to turn down the valume in reasonable limits,but if she unfriendly refuses,I will call administrator for sure.We should learn to consider for others.
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@moneyguru2009 (60)
• India
22 Jun 09
first go to her place and try talking to her,asking her to reduce the volume as it is really disturbing u.she would definitely consider it,if she repeats the same,say it once again and if it continues the next time,then go ahead and call up the building administrator and make a complain.
@desireeo (595)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
The best thing to do is to go talk to her before making any decision to contact the administrator. I know what it is like to be next to a loud and irritating neigbor. Boy, don't you just want to stone their house. But, you know, they'll never know they have been bothering you unless you go and talk to them.
If this girl won't listen to you and can't be reason with then that's the time to do drastic measures. WOrk out a compromise if you can...Good luck!
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
21 Jun 09
Hi icesmile, that is not so bad. The other night, at 2 am, my neighbors above quarrelled so loudly.
I think the stupid guy was mad, and he kept on shouting. Fortunately the other party ignored him, otherwise we really needed to call police.
That stupid drunkard slammed doors too. That's the worst of it. I felt like killing him.
